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  • tinaywillgo 64w

    Let’s face it, no matter how much you love each other, it is very easy to fall into routines. It’s hard not to envy a couple that just started dating even when you’re in a happy relationship. The beginning is always fun, care free and sweet. You don’t fight because there’s nothing to fight about. You don’t know each other’s weaknesses yet and you’re in no rush to find out. You don’t care about anything besides being with that person and getting to know that person.

    Once you get a few months into the relationship, all the secrets start coming out... The emotions, the pet peeves, the flaws, the bad habits, the mood swings... But it’s too late you are already in too deep. It’s not all bad though, the love grows. Your patience grows, your communication grows and if you can take all the bad things that come and still keep some of the fun and sweetness from the beginning of your relationship then you have all the keys to a beautiful and successful relationship. The reality of love is that at some point you will fight or disagree, you can put it off for as long as you want but it will happen and when it does, you have to handle it the best way you can. Any relationship worth having is worth fighting for.

    That's when you love, both needs to embrace darkness and light of their relationship.

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    If you wanna be with someone, you have to be mature enough to stick around when things get tough

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    The eyes never lies

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    go with someone who choose you even you're not the best.

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    Loving you is a choice I consciously make every day.

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    Communicate even if it's hard. Couples nowadays make a mistake of ignoring their partner and expecting them to understand what's wrong when they're not letting them know there's a problem in the first place.

    Talk about your feelings and open up. Don't shove it inside and act like there's nothing wrong. Are you feeling jealous and insecure? Let your partner know. Had a bad day at work? Let your partner know. Did your partner do something that you didn't like? Let him/her know. The key is to be honest with your feelings and talk about it. If you can't communicate effectively, the understanding will dissolve and you'll be left with unnecessary fights that'll lead to even more emotional distress.

    Look, your partner cannot magically read your mind. Stop expecting them to "figure out" what's the problem when you're not even telling them in the first place. How do you expect to get taken care of and be understood when you're confusing the hell out of them with your actions? That's why good communication is essential for healthy relationships. You both have to be comfortable listening to each other. Talk about what's bothering you. Be honest with yourself and open up. That way, your partner will understand you from a rational and emotional standpoint.

    Be clear and transparent with what you have to say. Don't interrupt your partner when he/she is talking. Remember, patience is key and you have to be willing to listen carefully and with open ears in order to be understood. This way, both of you will avoid misunderstandings that could lead to further resentment, conflict, and anger.

    Talk about it and you'll feel better.

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    You’ll always have me, I promise.

    Even if the world will go against us.
    You'll always have me.

    Even if distance separates us.
    You'll always have me.

    Even if we don't communicate.
    You'll always have me.

    And even if, my heart is partially filled with disappointment for not being with you,
    you'll always have me.

    Remember that, I love you.

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    She will remember the moments you made her feel loved more than the times you said, "I love you."

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  • tinaywillgo 85w

    At the end of the day, she loves you. No matter how mad you make her, no matter how crazy you drive her, no matter how often you disappoint her, no matter how many times you let her down, no matter how long you ignore her, no matter how many times you make the same mistakes, no matter how stressed she is because of you, no matter how frequently you make her cry, no matter how sad she feels because of you, no matter how heartbroken she gets because of you, she loves you. Regardless of how hard it is to be with you, regardless of how ridiculous the fights and arguments get, regardless of how stubborn you are to realize when you're doing something wrong, regardless of your anger issues and how you take it out on her, regardless of how much of an asshole you could be, regardless of the hurtful things you would say to her, she loves you and that's never going to change.

    And you know what? It isn't just you. It's her, too. She knows she can be difficult, too. She knows she can get carried away, too. She knows she can be complicated. She knows she can a little crazy. She knows she can be a little unfair. She knows she can be too jealous. She knows she can be a total bitch. She knows.

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  • tinaywillgo 86w

    When you're temporary emotional, don't make a
    permanent decision.

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