with words you may feel healed or connected or both
©hiyaorhiyuOur human body is has these elements I. E. Earthy, watery, airy and firey If associating ourselves with the nature Which is obviousAs we a homo sapien being a living organism similar to flora and fauna is a part of nature only. For E. g fireIf it's in balanced version Like when u sweat there is a urge of having waterLike when u r hungry there is urge of having food When the is no technology as in no electrified version of cookingLike for cooking u need fire Like for having tea, coffee or hot milk or warm water U need fireLike for having warm water for bathing during winter U need fireLike for feeling warm U need fireBut imagine when this firey elements looses it's balance it will definitely end up in ruining lives So the same with water, earth and airWhen they are balanced U 'll only avail benifits When they are not there is only destruction
©hiyaorhiyuNo I am not Because since birth I am in relationship with me And with my family And yeah friendsWhich are not same I got this stronger bonding kind of friendship only when I was about to complete my school life Like there was no judgement U can being youThey can being themThey accepted you with your perfection and imperfectionYou accepted them the same wayYou had shared even though some moments or some memories but they are strong and beautiful enough As they leave beautiful impact on your heart Even though U are not together and may have no means to contact each alsoBut by any incident U met the beauty still remains the sameHonestly speaking I have number of friends whom I met during graduation After that I shifted to a different place for different purpose For fulfilling that purpose again I went to a institution There I am able to make friendsBut in touch with only 1 And yeah because of some reason there was strong bondingAnd soo that thread of strong bonding still binds us Even though all of my friends are at different citiesAnd up to different thingsLittle do I know about their lifestyle as in timing But whenever we talk there is the same old love and care The memories in the past were not too sugary or too bitterIt's like more of a sugary and less of bitter as we fought and we cried and sometimes we just got angry over each otherI really hope that soon we all become financially independent and can have our get together like earlier Dunno about my future # well my relationship with me like a pulse rate Trying to balance it So the same with my mum and a younger sibling Well with papa it's neutral Time has passed and went through soo many changesAnd with some I was happy, sure and confidentAnd with some of course notSoo no idea that in future I can go further in any relationship
This reservation thing
©hiyaorhiyuThis reservation should come to an end Because first of all it creates hatred at personal levelAnd it's very obvious to have itBecause u r also needy or u r also in need But ur needs are simply overlooked just because u don't fall under that categorySecondly it shows like some weaker side or drawback or loophole of the systemThat if u don't use that reservation tagWe will not consider u like other citizensBecause normally u can'tU might need to face security and safety issuesU might need to face existence issuesLike existence of you as a personBut these people are also soo helpless That they have to ask for reservation Isn't this shows the hypocrite side of them towards a womanThat " We will keep you or considers you among the people who belongs from weaker section of the societyI. E. Along with kids and age old persons "Yet for fulfilling our every small need we will keep on giving you the tag of being powerful like goddess or kind like mother Teresa etc. Etc.
©hiyaorhiyuSuppose there is a thing A about which u heard that if u do it u will get certain benifits in ur life And after some time u heard that if u link or associate this thing A with some B thingU will get double benefitsMake sure that U knows thoroughly about both A & B thingsLike what are they exactly and what are their Do's & Don'tsAnd on what basis there is a link or association between themBecause U r going to put all ur efforts whether physical, mental,emotional ,social and spiritual to have those benifits by doing all and in what manner those mentioned Do's And it's not some jokeThat in between U r trying to take care of your overall health U r trying to maintain balance in your lifeU r trying to maintain different relationships in life U r trying to finish ur daily chores on time
©hiyaorhiyuThis balance is soo imbalance noLike in our country When filling up the firmFor women's - husband or father is mentionedWhy it is soo? Well this is just the single thing as there are many more U are a human being - to those who are in powerShe is also a human being She is also a living organismShe also has this seperarate entity because she is also a separate individualDid u even put a single effortTo try to know Whether she wants it that way or notWhether she is happy or not with that wayWhether she has something to say on that or notCan't help itStigmas are thereTaboos are there standards are therePersonality traits are thereCustoms are there Traditions are there Rituals are thereJudgements are thereMocking is thereBullying is thereRacism or racist comments are thereSexism or sexist comments are thereFor an individualBeing choose to be in a certain wayBeing has a certain personalityBeing choose this career or professionBeing has a certain family backgroundBeing has this preference Being has this perfections # the difference between a man and a woman is natural and obviousIf u considerd in that wayWhen they bind their sexual activity with pure love during those time when there is high chance of conceiving a babythey end up in bringing a new life from themselves Because sex is a part of a relationship and not everything about itAs it stops after certain time# more important in a relationship is Compatability like more of similarities which helps in making stronger bondLess of difference which help in balacing itCare like a family, Elasticity like a frienshipRespect toward each other's personal spaceGrowth with togetherness in all the spheres of life
Unless the same thing
©hiyaorhiyuU read, see and hear soo many thingsBut unless the same thing happened with youU will not understand it, realise it, feel it and enjoy it Whether it happened in exactly the same mannerIt is not necessaryU r going to feel in the same mannerIt's not necessaryU r going to experience it and express yourself and your emotions and feelings in the same mannerIt's not necessaryU r going to see it in the same wayIt's not necessaryU r going to survive in the same wayIt's not necessaryU r going to learn in the same wayIt's not necessaryBecause happening of same things is may be possibleBut U both are individuals and that to be separateSoo it's very obvious that you both are having your own ways
Caste system and reservation system
©hiyaorhiyuWhy I am against it ; caste systemBecause it leads towards in humane treatment towards other homo sapien or human beingSome people are soo in humane that they don't know how to treat with care, love and kindness towards the flora and fauna Why I am against it ; reservation systemFirst of all for your normal existence Or to have active participation towards the overall development of your countryOr to feel free and safe Or in order to express your efforts towards overall development of a countryYou need to take support of reservationBecause other wise you can'tBeing a woman or physically and mentally specially abled or belonging to any caste or communityNormally you can'tWhyBecause that's how the system works in our countryFurther in filling up the form There is a difference in feeDo u think that every one belong from general category is richOf course noWhat about cut offDo u think that every kid from general category is meant to score that much numberOf course noDo u think that every kid from reservation category is meant to score only this much numberOf course noSomewhere kid can't scoreObviously the kid is not meant for such thingOr may be the kid need some sort of counselling or guidanceOr there may be some other reasonSomewhere u don't led kid to score#where is the welfare of the citizens ? Physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, spiritually and financially# financial/economic and social support is the need of every kid whose parents are strong enough in that partirrespective of caste and gender Accordingly whether a boy child or a girl child Both are equally importantWhether from general category or reservation categoryStill they are poor and they definitely need aid or assistance So that once they become a grown up kid And get to know about their talents, who they are as in personality, strength and weakness wiseAccordingly they can choose a career best for themAll they need is support and assistance irrespective of gender and category# deep down even though a littleBut u got these hatred feelingBecause when your needs are overlooked just because of caste or gender or community of physical or mental special abilitySee these things are obvious and they are in no way wrongWrong is that behavior of the system and who are in charge of itI really wish that this things are limited to the filling in the details of the form itself
UNITY IN DIVERSITY
©hiyaorhiyuRamadan /Ramzan has started From tomorrow onwards chaitra navaratri will be startedWell this navratri comes between going rainy and coming winter also Different names, different way of worshipping as per the religion or culture or community or caste or race andOne thing is common and that is fasting with pure heart and mind and soulAnd with the end day social gathering, wearing new clothes enjoying delicious foodFor e.g. karwa chauth and eid And for both moon is necessarySoo there is no sense in differentiating between flora, fauna, color, food etc etc on the basis of religion#please don't think that I am in any way supporting caste systemAs I am extremely against this caste system as well as reservation system
With the change
©hiyaorhiyuWith the change in time, place, people, environment and situation/circumstances You may feel, evidence and I am not sure about enjoymentThat about a certain thingLike ohh this has this name alsoOhh this can be done like that alsoOhh this thing can be seen in that way alsoOhh my opinion or thought or vision is changing about this thingIn case you are feeling confident, happy and getting +ve vibes about itThen you will definitely have this feeling" Ohh god why it never came in mind earlier "
©hiyaorhiyuIts painful to have communication gap between parents and youBecause its obvious to have age and generation gapThank god if you have a sibling In case if you have a single childThen don't forget to thank god If you have friends who are like family to youYou would be more LuckyIf their family is like family to you too Further the most painful thing couldIf you are fighting with the inside youLike it's messed up kind of situationYou don't know who you are exactlyWhether from outside or insideYou don't know what you want to be orWhat u want from life U don't know how to balance between both the sides of you The reason behind it could be any or manyCause of it could be shattered or disturbed Physical, mental, emotional, social and spiritual health# please heal yourselfBecause for this time u got only one life U r already born and u know U don't know about ur good bye timePlease don't decide by your selfPlease don't take this decision by you# all you need is right person to talk about itRight place to visitWhere you feel safe, comfortable and trust about your words, emotions and feelingsAnd yeah some money tooAnd it's worth it to spend those money