Love relations, having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a very common thing now, and so very common is breakup. But the after effects of a breakup is very horrible and ridiculous. One completely loses onself, and many a times indulges in some habbits and things that are extremely harmful. They dont think at all from their mind then, not giving a damn to anything or anyone including their parents...!!!
When your heart breaks, you feel extreme pain naa, your lovely love is no more yours, he/she betrayed you, left you, cheated on you, broke you, throwed at you highly decorated woven lies, insulted and ignored you, faked and fooled you, did everyyyyy bad thing to you...
The one who did wrong, will get their karma back sooner or later, but what are you doing now???? You are damaging, tormenting, harassing yourself more and more...much more then they did, because you are always remaining in those frightening, scary shadows of your past. What about your parents???? How will they feel, when they will see you in such condition....
You cry and cry untill ur eyes bulges out, to such extent, that you yourself can have a bath, in a bath-tub of your own tears...!!! Is a single tear seriously worth it???....to waste on someone, who is the cause of it...!!!
"Anginat aansu bahaoge agar uss bewafaa ke liye, to bhi wo, hamesha baghawat hi karega... Ek aansu, agar gira maa baap ke khatir, To khud khuda bhi hashr ke din, teri shafa-at karega..."
Many youths, are far away from their parents, for educational reasons. Parents send them far, concerning about their childs bright future and career, but they are totally unaware of this bitter fact, that their beloved child, is busy ruining his/her career, behind such bloody fake love. They always are tensed about their child..."Would he/she be well.?? .....Would he/she have eaten food on time??.....Would there be any problem?? etc etc"
But they dont know, their child has no importance of food or sleep anymore, as he/she is busy cutting their wrist, out of anger and hatred of their lost love, they are busy, diving deep and deep in the oceans of depression.!!! What do you think?.....cutting wrist and having multiple scars of cuts is a very brave sign of your courage???
You are highly mistaken then poor soul, you are the biggest coward, you are a total weakling....because you are wasting, not your blood, that every single drop of blood, that covers those sharp blades, is a debt of your parents, that you wasteAnd you have no right to do so....
"Maa sochti hogi, "kya mera bacha thik se Khana khata hoga? Kya wo apna khayal rakh, waqt pe sota hoga? Kya pata uss maa ko bhala, bacha to apni Kalaai kaat ke khoon bahata hoga, puri raat Khud ko, tanhaai ke andhero me dubata Hoga..."
A breakup is not a fullstop to anyones life. Your ex would find another partener very soon, love is always at sale for mostly everyone, they will very easily replace you, but your parents...they wont be ever able to replace you, no one could ever be able to take your place in their life. Seeing you lost, and harming yourself, they wont be able to live.
What about their love???? They gave us birth, they sculpted us, they brought up us with love right from the day we have born till this day. They sacrificed everything for our sake, they gave us proper education, ethics, morals, life values, guidance, etc etc without expecting any sort of return from us. They thought everytime about our happiness, walked with us in our hard times, trouble, like...what is there, that they did not do for us???
And this is the result....one would give them back??? For the sake of love life....one plans to committ suicide even...like what type of shitt is this??? Not a single second thought about your parents...will they be able to live??? Seeing you dead????
"Pyaar ke piche marne chale ho, ek baar jisne zindagi di, kya guzregi unpe, ye kabhi socha hai...??? Nahi aata khayal ek baar bhi unka, to bhai, Apke dimaagh me serious lochaa hai..."
"Pyaar ka to khel hi esa hai, jaha zyada roaming aur network, waha ye pyaar zyada chalega, kho diya jo khud ko, uss pyaar ke chakkar mai Apke maa baap ko, unka dusra koi bacha nahi milega...!!!"
Think about your parents first dear friends. All your wounds shall heal, with your parents blessings and love. Dont allow yourself to drown in sadness, dont stay upset and detached from your ownself. Get over your past friends, untill and unless your parents are by your side, you dont need any one, to complete you....
Most loyal love is your parents love, Make them your first love, your last love, and see your life changing in a heaven, full of love, love and only love spread everywhere... Lotsss of love...to my parents, and all parents of this world...!!!
May all parents of world, be always happy, smiling and healthy...May Allah grant to all those lovely caring souls....a longggg, healthy life till the day of judgement. Ameen.