Are you ready to get married?
In India
The most common question
For a 20something woman is are you ready
To get married?
This simple question may have many underlying stereotypes.
But they all undertone one truth
Are you ready to compromise you dreams hopes ambition and livelihood.
#weddingseason
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eyeenma 33w
#marriage #women #female #weddingseason #life #society #hippocracy.
In India
The most common question
For a 20something woman is are you ready
To get married?
This simple question may have many underlying stereotypes.
But they all undertone one truth
Are you ready to compromise you dreams hopes ambition and livelihood.
Ready to submit yourself to whims of otherPhoto By Dallas Reedy on Unsplash16 0sneh_antil 84w
Maikhane me aake
Sabka rang bdal jata hai,
Nasha esa jo dil me chupi baat
Juban pr le aata hai..
Kuch der tak jo
Bana baitha tha dushman,
Jate waqt vo
'Gadi Tera Bhai Chlaega' bn jata hai
©sneh_antil13 12 1- sneh_antil @armaan_deep
- armaan_deep @sneh_antil humari language buri lag rahi ho to pehle hi sorry bol dete hain kya hai na ke adat se majboor hai
- bejubaanshayar Bilkul
- bejubaanshayar Sahi kaha
- sneh_antil @bejubaanshayar hnji
इस मेहेंदी पर हमने
किसी और का नाम चाहा था
पर आपके मर्ज़ी के आगे
किसकी कब चली है जनाब!!
©shamli_mali7 2 1- cheeku143 Bohot hard line
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chinmoydas0836
Delightful
Eid Mubarak!
I'll be glad if you visit my latest profile post on Ramadan and do like comment if u think it's up to the mark!
melwyn_castelino 134w
It's like some kind of a ritual .An age for marriage . Yeh age nikal gayi toh tohba tohba #marriageScene #weddingSeason
One question sir plz
Zindagi main shaadi karna zaroori hai kya ..
©melwyn_castelino6 0udit94 136w
___________WHEN MOM BUYS CLOTHES___________
"Trend aur fashion se koso door..
Men section ke pare,
Women section se pehle ...
Ek section hai kids ka..
Wahan milungi main tujhe...
Jahan kapde bade honge
Aur
Saste bhi..
Un kapdo ki daastan aane wali saari pidhiyan sunengi..
Kyunki virasat me ham unko yahi kapde denge..
Bolo miloge mujhe wahan..??"
The epic dialogue is of a movie "When mom buys clothes" starring Udit Vashishth and other supporting actors.
It started with my mom's OCD of buying clothes a size bigger than my body.
Mom is like a long term Investor.
She is investing in clothes speculating the proportionate increase in my weight and height in the coming 5 years so that I won't have to buy new clothes until my t-shirt looks like a blouse..
Her strategy is basically like
"Panch varshiye yojana".
Clothes once bought should remain fixed for the next 5 years so that the innocent public like me won't ask for a new Prime minister (clothes) in that period.
She buys clothes keeping every child in her mind.
Every child except the one for whom the clothes are bought.
Imagine a shirt of size 42 is worn by a person with bones peeping out of his body that even small size shirts look large.
I used to look like a rapper basically.
I bet I would look so dope if I had a gold chain, a headband and an aviator.
(So, now you know from where does this trend of wearing large t-shirts came from)
But instead of looking cool, I used to look so scary that even scarecrows would run for their lives seeing me in those clothes.
Asking for new clothes before the lease period is a taboo here.
It's like if you suddenly utter the word "New clothes" the AARTI KI THAALI would be dropped from mom's hand.
She would call dad saying,
"Aapka ladka naye kapde maang rha hai"
It is so serious that the ground beneath my feet would split wide apart and a bunch of reporters (who were waiting for this day) would come out with all the media and would say,
"Aaye dekhte hai ek dil dahala dene wali wardaat..
Delhi ke ek chhote se kone me ek saahasi bacche ne maange apne maa-baap se kapde..
Maa-baap dono sadme me hai...
Aaiye jaante hai seedha us bahadur bacche se.
Sir bataiye aapne abhi 2 saal pehle hi naye kapde liye...
Uske bawajood bhi naye kapde maangne ki himmat kahan se aai..
Btaiye sir btaiye..
Janta jawab chahti hai..."
And the sound fades away as I fell on the ground fainting in anxiety.
Reporter : Jaisa ki aapne dekha naye kapde maangne me ek insaan ki ruh tak kaanp uthti hai..
Bacche ko abhi aspatal le jaya jayega..
Tab tak ke liye main reporter Karan Cameraman Arjun ke saath aapse alvida lete hai..
P.S. - Recently I went to Karol Bagh for shopping and for the first time I bought clothes for myself (though took two of my generous students with me.. they know fashion well)
Went to at least 30 shops and the answer was same..
"Aapke kapde kids section me milenge sir"
I was like "I'm just in the wrong country..
If it would be China, I would have a variety of clothes to choose from for my size "
#funny #weddingseason #clothes #mom #nostalgia
#ucomic.
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zikra_
Are!
Thanks to you for writing such amazing posts!
I actually used to love reading your posts they are very different from other writers the use of that "hinglish" bruh!
but my exams popped up and i just quit everything and started focusing on that.
Ik I've left many of your posts unread. And I'll try reading all of'em. :")♥ -
udit94
@zikra_
Miss old days when readers used to enjoy such posts..
Read whenever you get time
And good luck for any exam if left and if not then good luck for the results -
zikra_
Well.. I still do :p
Haha! Im done with my exams n results as well! Thanks for that wish anyway! :") - summersin T-shirt looks like a blouse~ this is
- summersin Damn, relatable.
rahulmolasi 136w
©rahulmolasi
9 0imkaushiksanyal 139w
Not my whole world, but the whole Yo-universe...
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#you #universe #weddingseason #love #mirakee #writersnetworkAlone it was just a universe
but with you,
It became, "Youniverse".
_Kaushik Sanyal14 0मेरी दुल्हन
जोड़े में सजी मेरे सामने जब आएगी,
मेरे नाम की मेहँदी अपने हाथों पे रचाएगी,
प्यार की हल्दी उसके चेहरे पे चमकेगी,
लेके मेरा नाम उसकी चूड़ी खनकेगी।
बरसों का सपना होगा आज पूरा,
भरूंगा उसकी मांग में रंग मेरा,
रखेगी धीमे से मेरी ज़िन्दगी में कदम,
आएगी बन कर वो मेरी दुल्हन।।
©malikajain3 0Getting married to the one you love is one blessing,
Getting love from the one you marry is another.
©heartsdiary16 4 1Marriage
A holy bond not just in between two persons but in two families.
©anurag_segekar14 1-
dreamer_98
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U can tag me in any post,I'm always with uh
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heartsdiary 177w
All these years, they had days where they laughed, they fought, they cried but today was just different.
Today his sister was getting married. The hug before she left spoke for itself.
©heartsdiary2 0He would never get emotional but that day watching his love walk towards him as a bride, he couldn't hold back his tears. ♥️
©heartsdiary13 0Perfect Timeline
Strangers
Friends
Lovers
Married couple
... Even after one dies the other stays in the heart...
And the heart goes on ♥️8 2jahsived 185w
Alli
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#weddingseason #loveauthentic #ftwotw #bohowedding #theknot #elopement #brideandgroom #smpweddings #shesaidyes #realweddings #weddingdetails #weddingchicks #risingtidesociety #loveintentionally #destinationwedding #vintagebride #destinationweddingphotographer #featuremeoncewed #stylemepretty #elopementphotographer #bohobride #intimatewedding #greenweddingshoesShe is just perfect
I always wanted to know the perfect in you. Searching for a sweetener for my love candy and from a far I realized you were the one. The perfect one, that opened my eyes to the unthinkable future. I know it will be hard to find again so quickly I walked at you. Welcoming and tender you were a receiving heart you shared. One that opened a door of friendship. The friendship I seek to grow as I expect more knowing there's always something new coming from you. Oh fascinating to me you are, a light my body is missing.6 2heartsdiary 212w
"I had goosebumps the first day I met him,
And even on the day we got married.
Goosebumps remained the common factor,
but the love grew stronger with time,
and it will still till the end!" ❤️
-A Bride's Note
©heartsdiary8 0heartsdiary 215w
Just wait another night
Tomorrow you'll be mine
My eyes are getting restless
My soul is getting breathless
As I wait to see you again
You will be here by myside
Walking from the other side
of the aisle
Just wait another night
©heartsdiary