A goodbye is often termed as 'end of a journey with something or someone' or 'a wake up call'.
Whichever type of goodbye we say,
either we feel pain, hurt, angry and angst or we feel light, calm, free and peaceful.
In our life we all say a final goodbye like these in which what we feel at the end varies. Sometimes temporarily and sometimes permanently, goodbyes are not always good and also not always bad. Some goodbyes are worth it while some are not. Some goodbyes are only untill we meet again. Some leaves scars, heartache, pain or a lesson while some gives nothing. Some gives tranquility, calmness, freedom and peace in life while some takes us to a road of guilt or sorrow.
Basically whatever happens post goodbye is variable since it is based on a person's own storyline, emotions and attitude. Isn't it ?
Here's a short poem i would like to further say,
"There's a word 'good' in the 'bye' and so is the word 'GOODBYE' ,
What is good in the bye should be thought after saying a goodbye.
What positive thing you got after a goodbye, be it an experience or a lesson; must be realised and known.
If something was bothering you and was a plight..
Learn to say goodbye by cutting yourself from such bonds,
Then you meet yourself and a peaceful mind with a non toxic life.
If something was meant not to happen, and the role of the person or thing was till a limited period,
Learn to be strong enough to say a goodbye..
Then you meet a healthy you, healthy from mind, living a healthy, free and calm life.
If someone didn't care enough for you,
You have been neglected, rejected, ignored or used from selfish, heartless, greedy and non-caring inhumane people around you,
Learn to say a quick goodbye,
As you must be wise and clever enough to assume what and who is right for you and deserve to be a part of your life anymore.
Here i mentioned types of goodbyes and what impact it could have,
Learn to say no to yourself even if you are kind enough not to say so, easily ;
But have the strength to cut your strings from any such things or people that you think is not good for you anymore to bear with.
If it were worth it, then the need to say goodbye or the thought to say goodbye won't come to your mind.
So, always be courageous and quick enough to say, "enough is enough",
To say, "i deserve peace",
To say, " i won't bear this anymore",
To say, " i need to let it go",
And so on.
Goodbyes may be hard or painful but at the end it will all be worth it.
Because if the need of goodbye won't be there, then the thought too won't be there in your mind.