Trying to figure yourself out isn't any easy task. We've been surrounded by stigmatized ethics that are meant and designed to frame and define each one of us. These ethics end up destroying us. At the end of this hustle is the fact that you come to know better your true inner self. How far you can go to achieve what you want!
A lion doesn't seem untamed when it's in it cave. The moment it breaks out then those manipulative humans no longer have control over it.
We keep being caved in for years and years. And that completely destroys who we are. We live by the belief and plans of others. Our lives become a rollercoaster.
Let that trial process help you grow out of that cave and stand up for yourself.
You choose to be happy with the little you have or you choose to be sad with the most you don't have. Social media life isn't 100% pure real. There's fake laughter. Fake smiles. Forced smiles. Forced happiness. Forced praises for things you simply don't like but .... YOU HAVE TO DO IT FOR THE CAMERA. To get paid or earn free gifts.
There are very few social media influencers who keep it real and authentic.
Your online surrounding is as important as your on-ground surrounding.
It's time you stop focusing your energy, time and attention to judgemental people and direct it to people who love to hear you out and support you.
When someone criticizes you, your first instinct is to become defensive and protect yourself. Or maybe you just attack back. But doing this makes you no better than them.
If you don’t like their behavior, then don’t give them the power to change who you are. Don’t let their negativity turn you into a cranky, irritable person who plays the judgmental game right along with them. Choose to stop explaining and walk away.
Choose keenly the plate to whom you pour your emotions into. Don't let the plate be thrown back at your face more uglier than it already looks like.
Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم taught us if you can't say a good word then be quiet.
This applies to both the speaker and listener. To the speaker, if you cannot speak a good word, then remain silent. To the listener, if you cannot reply back with a good word, then remain silent.
Change in life isn't something easily acceptable. With it, comes consequences, mistakes, opportunities, lessons, challenges and growth in our lives.
Bringing emotions on the table can totally change you. Love can change you. Hatred can change you. Before you pass any judgement upon someone, learn about the true inner soul beneath the flesh of that person.
The choices you make now define the inner you.
With your emotional love life, make decisions based upon your present. With your financial part of life, make decisions based upon your future goals.
Our lives are surrounded by constant changes. What happened today may not happen tomorrow. What happened yesterday may never happen in the future.
How someone was past year isn't the same person today. How someone is right now may not be the same in the coming years.
In any challenge, we have choices. Either directly communicate or indirectly communicate. Direct communication means talking straight and forward. No fuss. No ifs and buts. Just plain conversation to get to the bottom of it. You react with words.
Indirect communication means using actions to explain your thoughts. You react with actions.
Whatever choice you take, make sure you recheck on the character of the person you want to address. Are they affected by words or by actions ? The answer to this will guide you through.
If you take a challenge as a defeat, you tune your mindset into failure zone, that's your choice!
Whereas, if you take a challenge as a source of strength , you tune your mindset into success zone, that's definitely your choice!
हमने आपकी रचनाएँ पढ़ी, वह सभी अद्वितिय हैं। हम आपको अपनी नई पुस्तक में सहयोग देने के लिए आमंत्रित करना चाहते हैं। पुस्तक आपके नाम के साथ प्रकाशित होगी साथ उसकी प्रतियां भी आपको दी जाएंगी। आपको सम्मानित करते हुए स्वर्ण पदक भी दिया जाएगा।
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Just like how your brain tells you to achieve something in life, it's also telling you to live in the moment . We live in a society that sets a standard rule that whoever wants success and a future financial stability should utilise every moment they have to work out, read, tick off To-do List and and and....
And whoever chooses to spend time by either refurbishing their lives and choosing to snack and relax in the house without doing anything extra but setting an achievement goal that he/she would get it done this upcoming week, that's COMPLETELY OKAY. This set of group who choose to do this always get bad comments, negativity and they feel incapable.
Listen to me very carefully, as long as you have a goal to achieve next week , you can enjoy your life during the weekends by choosing NOT to tick off the To-do list, NOT to read that book and definitely choose to relax, enjoy the beach and have a cuppa at hand and snacks.
Success doesn't come by constantly working but rather knowing boundaries and setting them up for yourself. Live in the moment so you never regret in the future. Don't deny yourself the joy of relaxation but also don't overdose it. Don't deny yourself the opportunity to educate yourself more but also don't overdose it.
Those who take out time to find relaxation make the best out of themselves in terms of success and self-reflection.
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When we get afflicted with misery and stress. We question ourselves: Does Allah love me ? Is it because of my sins thus am being punished?
However, the answer to these questions comes from your inner instincts. You know it deep inside whether you are innocent or guilty for this reaction you are receiving.
Let's take on an example:
We all know Riba( interest ) is haram(forbidden) yet we see people still using it in their lives.
What surprises the most is when that person gets tested by Allah with hardships, and he knowing deep inside that it's because of this sin that he is committing, makes the innocent face that Allah loves me.
Yes, Allah loves you that's why he is punishing you in this life so you can return to Him with repentance and avoid the Hellfire.
But, you shouldn't get away with this public facade blindly and keep doing what you do without fear of Allah.
What you feel inside verifies the answer to this test. It guides you to choose the correct answer. Innocent or proven guilty. The answer to this ? You know it !
Follow your instincts they'll guide you to the right answer. Let your subconscious mind guide and direct your conscious mind to accept the truth (guilty and needs rectification and repentance or innocence and needs gratitude and patience)