#simping

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  • perseuss_x 13w

    Stargazing

    Was the night was so haunting that we are regretting .
    Wasn't the sunset for new beginning
    Rather than we think existing
    The star are meant glows
    Doesn't make us feel gloomy
    The moon and starts illuminates
    Shall we feel shy to fly
    People walking me staring at the people and walls
    Listening to our favourite songs .
    ©perseuss_x

  • ciara1 67w

    Stop Simping

    This is more like a self-explanatory topic. This is going directly towards the young male viewers and the older as well. In particular, I am talking to the young male viewers that are reading this informative poem. If you are a male that is 27 or under, I really want to share this subject with you. Some men do not understand this topic from a female's perspective, but there are a lot of men that I know are discussing this same topic of simping. You can also check out and follow a man named Bpowell on Poemia. He writes informative rhyming poems about men with an abundant mindset and men that are on their purpose. You can also check out and subscribe to AMS Strategies on YouTube. He is a dating coach that I get my knowledge and perspective from his videos and books he writes. If you are a man that wants to understand male nature you can order AMS Strategies books on Amazon for $19 or $24. You can also check out MJ GetRight and Bosana. Those are my dating coaches. They are on YouTube.
         For the young adult males that do not know what the word simping means. Simp is when you infatuate over women, allowing them to take over your mind and cause you to do things for them that you would not normally do.
        Men nowadays try to do so many things to show how they care about a woman and it comes off way too strong. I used to do the same with my boyfriend and a lot of other men. I wanted them to do a lot for me, such as buying me things, taking me to restaurants all the time. They always provided me things that I did not need. It is okay to give your girlfriend or wife things sometimes, but not all the time. You have to have a balance. When they were giving me things all the time, I ended up manipulating them. I was taking control of their minds. I was using them. That is how most women do today, and I know a  lot of women that manipulate boys and men. Especially black women, and not just black women that control men. Some Hispanic women, white women, etc... It does not matter what color that woman is. Many women today use men to get what they want. They want a man to do everything for them.
         To you all young adult males that are in college or were in college. You may have met a girl, or you are still communicating with that girl during this pandemic. If that girl you have met in college is asking for things, wanting a lot from you, or wanting you to do everything for her. She is manipulating you. She does not love you for you. She loves the things you provide for her. 
        When you meet girls in college or anywhere. You all need to stop simping, and doing things for a woman that is not giving you anything in return but manipulation. If you are a man that does not normally provide before you had met that woman. Do not start providing for a girl when you meet her just to please her. Do what makes you happy as a young man. You can take her out, but not all the time. Tell that girl how you feel, always be honest and communicate with her. Tell that girl what you will not tolerate in that relationship. If a woman can put her foot down on a man. A man should put his foot down as well if a woman is not treating him right. No one does not want to be with someone that tells them what to do. Who basically controls the relationship. No one wants that. I told my boyfriend do not ever treat me like I am a Queen on a pedestal, and do not make me your priority. I am not special to a man. The only man that I am special to is God, no other man on this earth can treat me like I am special. Only the Lord can. 
       You all young men have to have that same type of mindset to not simp over a woman. When a man starts treating a woman like she is special. That is when that beta male mode comes in, and starts becoming attached to that woman. That man will think he can not live without a woman. He cares about her deeply and he needs that woman. That woman will start to pull away from you,  which would annoy her. That man cries his heart out to that woman. A woman is not important, I am not important to a man. Your goals in life are more important than a woman. Put your passions before that girl you meet. 
           For us women as well, our passions come before a man too. 
       Everyone needs to find a purpose for themselves, and that purpose can not be someone else. You can love your girlfriend, and you can love your wife. But you all need to stop simping. 
         There are real relationships out there, and there are real connections out there as well. It can be a headache meeting all the same types of people because the majority of people are like this and that. The majority of people rule. I do agree when I hear a lot of men say "I give up on women, I'm done, too many women are like this? Why am I keep meeting the same types of females? I give up on relationships. Women ain't nothing but users." I hear a lot of men say that and predominantly it be the black males I hear say those things about women. I know marriage and relationships are not for everyone and I understand that. There was a girl that In-boxed me two months ago about a poem I wrote that I was talking about marriages. She commented saying that certain types of relationships are for certain people. She thinks that all relationships and marriages are for everyone. It is someone out there for someone, but it is your choice as a young man or older man to decide whether you want to be in a relationship, married, or single. It is up to everyone to decide on what you want in your life and future. It is our will to live our lives for us, and not for others.
        For a while, I used to always think the same. I thought all men were the same. I used to ask myself, "why am I keep meeting the same niggas, that don't want to do shit in their lives? I keep meeting these same thugs and low lives that don't wanna do nothing in life." It seemed like I was attracting myself to thugs in my past. That made me not want to trust men. I learned through the years that every man is unique. We have to stay true to ourselves. 
        It is always like for a lot of men that always target a certain type of female. A lot of people do not believe in energy. You all have to understand that the way you go about things, those things you are searching for are what is going to get attracted to you. Most men are searching in a place where you meet girls that are the same or you would say, "girls that are this and that." There is a possibility that you can meet a good girl in the library. Like in Universities, and in the public libraries. I know millions of schools are closed because of this pandemic, but there are public local libraries around your areas that are open. Some libraries are opening up slowly now, but they are letting a certain amount of people inside. You can still meet a woman in this pandemic, but you really have to use wisdom now as far as meeting people out in the streets. Things are not the same as they were before this pandemic, and that is why there are these face cams dating sites where you can meet and communicate with women and men online. You really have to use wisdom in that as well because meeting people online can be risky and dangerous. Be careful with that. You can meet a good woman in the library that you would never see in the clubs. The female you would see in the library studying or reading all the time. Those are the women you will never see in the clubs. There are certain things you want to find in a woman, but you will never find it when you are going after a certain type of female. That causes you to start simping. A lot of men need to stop going after the women that are not for them. Stop going after the women you do not like, that you are only attracted to because of how they look and how they makes you feel in the bedroom.
      A man can be so attracted to that woman physically, but she has a bad personality. A woman can look very attractive, and have an evil personality. Stop going after those specific females because that is what causes a lot of men to simp. There are girls out there that are the ones for you. I hear some men say that they need a wife very badly, and they want to get married. Trust me, you will not find a wife at the strip clubs because those women there are not wife material. I have been to the strip club in the past, and those women do not care about you. Those strippers only care about what they can get out of your pockets, which is money. That is what they all care about. They do not care about love and romance. God has someone out there that is for you, but the only way you can get to that person is to find your purpose. You have to do certain things in order to find that person. Find something in your own life that benefits you, before trying to benefit someone else, or getting someone else. Stay true to yourselves and know what you want in your lives.











    ©ciara25
    ©ciara1

  • ciara1 67w

    Stop Simping

    My next post is directly towards the the young adult males and about simping towards women.