Success and failure
Definition of success and failure varies,
From person to person like according to their perception and needs.
For the one who don't get three time meal a day ;
Success for them is getting as much money as needed for that three times' meal.
For the one who can afford food but not education, luxuries or other assets,
Success is getting all their needs and dreams done, that can make them get all that they want and long for.
Can this ever end ?
Is there any full stop in our craving, needs and desires that can get renewed nonstop at every life's step.
As won't the person, mentioned above, would crave for some new desire ahead ?
And won't he measure his/her success according to what he/she successfly accomplish ?
What if he/she donot accomplish ?
Won't he/she measure it as his/her failure and get disappointment.
That's how success and failure are counted by us.
We misinterprete success and failure with our own thoughts and aches.
It's all in our mind, in our need and in the perceptions.
Success is actually sugar coated form of satisfaction.
While, failure is bitter coated form of disappointment and illusions.
Who reaches the highest level of contentment, are termed successful creatures.
But i think who are fittest for survival are surely successful.
Like, if you dropped your plan to suicide, you successfully saved your gift of life and your loved ones.
If you were broken apart but you stood up again to shine,
You successfully shaped your growth to mould yourself.
If you helped someone in need or even wiped someone's tear being their aide,
You successfully gained goodness- seed in you karma's garden.
If you live a life of good and right deeds,
You successfully became a real human.
Success is all such things that make you better than what you were earlier.
Success lies in even the smallest things we don't even take for granted.
Failure is when we don't act as a gentle, humble, focused and good human.
All the greatness and goodness can be tough itself, to earn or follow often.
But if you try doing so,
Ofcourse you successfully obtained wisdom to enlightenment.
Success and failure has a very thin line because in middle there's satisfaction and dissatisfaction.
Can anyone have self satisfaction?
The answer would be a straight 'no' according to our realisation.
Because everytime with a rising snow, A little warm is expected,
With a rising warm,
A little cold is expected.
With success, a little more appreciation & fame is expected,
With every failures,
Chances and opportunities are expected.
With those things which you already have, a little more things better than them are expected,
Satisfaction is said to have within ourself,
But can we have all of it really or always attain them ?
Because with every steps crossed,
a new step to be crossed is awaited.
And in that new step,
New expectations & desires arise which is okay and obvious.
Satisfaction hence is uncatchable,
And so there goes our life.. unsatiable..!!
So here's a simple thing which one needs to understand,
That expectations, desires, goals, needs, necessities and dissatisfaction are the seed of having a dream or ambition.
We all dream or plan such things,
But we fail to often remind ourselves, that our fate or life cannot always work as we want it.
It can not go hand in hand as and how we always want it.
And that's how life gets complicated as we grow,
By telling us we failed when something donot go as we wanted.
Sugar coating satisfaction with success we crave and get tempted towards success and destinations.
As long as there's expectations & desires,
self satisfaction is uncatchable.
But hey cheer up, it's ok,..!!
Dream, Desire,...Be free minded.
Have a peaceful mind.
Because its dissatisfaction and failure that are indirectly best friends of happiness and success.
If there will be fall then only importance and strength to rise more strongly will be understood.
Failures if taken as token of moving ahead, standing again and trying again,
With more perfection, more efforts and more strength will definitely polish us.
So why hate or take failure as a negative word...!!
Unsatiable life leads us to have desires and...
.... hard work to have that desire get fullfilled, gives inner peace and feeling of accomplishing success.
So, Keep going
You may fall but it's because you are moving,
If you will not move you may never fall.
But then what's the goal to live if you stay constant thinking failure as your mate and not success' kin.
Falling, rising, succeeding and failing,
Don't stop to desire if u fail or don't get something as u expected.
Rise, awake stand again and just keep going with your full energy to win your race you began for yourself.
Brave can be those who keep going and don't sit thinking about what could have life been or about time gone.
Often success is not a cup of tea that will be served, without any effort, patience, wisdom, awakening lesson as well as wear and tear, which is so called failures or disappointments by all.