Love is extremely powerful. If we love wrong people or wrong things in a wrong way then we can destroy us.. In the human heart there is an innermost part of heart which is only created for the love of Allah.. Nothing else should go in the core of our heart except Allah.. If we put the love of wealth or the love of some person in the core of our heart instead for the love of Allah then it can destroy us and we can not held anyone liable for that destruction because we are the only one who is responsible for that destruction..