Today's topic is about men's rights and how kpop changed my views towards men.
MEN'S ARE BEING DISCRIMINATED!
Even if I am not a boy I still understand their pain. Because of Women Discrimination people are paying so much attention to women that they don't realise men are being discriminated too.
Lemme give you an example:
When girls dress up as boys, cut their hair short and behave in manly way they are considered brave and bold. Those girls are called tomboys.
But when boys wear makeup and jewellery they are considered too girly and people react like it's a bad thing. People call those boys 'GIRLS' most of the time.
Honestly there's nothing such as 'like boys' or 'like girls'. Because of majority girls love makeup and jewellery doesn't mean boys can't use that. That doesn't make them girls.
How kpop changed this side of me?
I used to judge boys the same way because I never saw these types of boys. After stanning kpop I realised makeup and jewelleries look good on boys.
BTS is hated a lot because some people think they are like GIRLS. I used to think that too and now I feel so embarrassed. After stanning them I realised they don't look like girls....they just look like cute boys.
Girls always get to be better:
I saw in a lot of women's rights vids that girls are always better than the boys only to prove 'Girls are equal'. Honestly we girls only want to be equal not better. Nobody needs to prove boys weak only to prove girls strong. Both gender are equal. We all are human. Nobody is better than anyone because nobody is perfect.
We all have flaws but to prove we are worth being respected equally doesn't mean we have to point out the flaws of others.
What were my views about boys ealier?
1. Boys don't cry
2. Boys can't wear makeup
3. Boys can't wear jewellery
4. Boys can't wear earings. I was like I DON'T CARE WHATEVER JEWELLERY THEY WEAR BUT EARINGS ARE FOR GIRLS!
5. Boys can't dance as good as girls.
6. Boys don't have a melodic and angelic voice / Girls sing better than boys.
I didn't realize I was discriminating too. I was a kid though and I am not a grown up yet but I still understood my mistake early after stanning BTS. I used to hate bts and won't even bother listening to any of their songs as I thought they were too GIRLY because I heard people saying that.
My views about boys now and how kpop helped me to be a better person:
Now I totally changed. After stanning BTS I realised they are super talented and super cute. They don't look like girls honestly. They look like Ka-Ute Korean boys.
I saw them crying in a lot of videos and it broke my heart but I also realised it's ok to express yourself. They deserve love and affection not gender discrimination.
Also makeup and jewellery looked good on them and I became habited to seeing boys with makeup and tons of jewellery that everything seems normal and okay to me now. And the earings made them shine.
Their dance....what do I say....SUPERB Now I won't say boys can dance even better than girls, I only wanna say anyone can dance no matter it's a boy or a girl. We only need some practice. Practice makes perfect
Jimin you're our ANGEL and of course you have an angelic voice. Not only you but lots of boys have. Every guy can sing beautifully even if they have a very manly voice. Look at V. He has a deep manly voice but he sings so nicely. BTS changed me a lot.
AND THANKS A LOT FOR CHANGING MY VIEWS TOWARDS MEN AND HELPING ME BE A BETTER WOMAN.
Others ways boys are being discriminated:
Still today, somewhere in the world, some people might think boys can't or don't do house chores/ they shouldn't do it. Let them be independent and do their chores by themselves and cook their own food. Boys can be good at household works too.
LET BOYS BE THEMSELVES AND NOT BE CALLED GIRLS!!
Let this new year be a new beginning for boys; a bit more beautiful beginning
Another year passed and we have successfully fought and survived corona. I hope this year goes well too. In sha Allah we'll be able to complete this year successfully too. I also hope RM, Suga and Jin get well soon. In sha Allah they will.
New Year is my fav day of the year. I like it more than my b'day. It helps me forget and leave the painful past behind and start a beautiful future.
My new year resolution is to complete my story anyhow by 2 months. I have been too lazy last year but I surely won't be procrastinating this year.
I also want to be better at my studies so I'll try to concentrate on school more.
2021 was a really special year for me. Lots of good things happened to me this year. I don't know why but after Corona I started having the most precious moments of my life.
The year was full of joy and family interactions. I got a lot closer to my family than I was before. I would talk to my cousins literally everyday. They're my best friends.
I also started stanning bts last year. I don't remember how long I've been stanning blackpink but last year I was an amazing blink as much as I remember.
I also started praying regularly and stopped skipping prayers thanks to my sister. I also started learning Arabic and thus I felt myself getting closer to Allah.
I even made new friends and also met a bully for the first time at school. Although she didn't bully me yet but I know she's planning to bully me after school starts again. I hope I'll be able to ignore her. I also met a very precious friend. He was really fun to talk and it was fun to prank him. I miss him now as he went to hostel and they don't allow phone there.
I also wrote my first story in Wattpad last year and it was my 1st ever kpop ff and also bts ff. It's name is 'Mrs. White and the Seven Heirs' . I would appreciate it if you read it in case you use Wattpad. If you don't find it then simply search: