#needachange

15 posts
  • shabd_waala 60w

    कुछ ना कर पाए

    बनने कुछ बड़ा वो कॉलेज थी जाती
    उसको कोई छेड़ रहा था वो रही सबको बताती।
    एक दिन कोई छीन गया उसकी आबरू,
    वो कैसे सबको समझाती?
    न बचा पाया कोई धर्म, ना समाज, ना जाती,
    एक ख्वाइश थी उसकी की वो भी खुली हवा में उड़ पाती।
    कहती रही दुनिया, की वो कैसे ख़ुदको बचाती?
    वो तो अब दुनिया मे नहीं पर ये समाज तो ज़िंदा है,
    ये समाज को कैसे बचाए ये बात काश वो समझा पाती।
    सब आखो के सामने था पर कुछ ना कर पाए,
    ये बात किसी को भी नही सताती।
    ©shabd_waala

  • _aradhana 69w

    Just give a tym, give a chance so that a girl may give wings to her dreams..
    मैं भी छू सकती हूं आकाश,
    बस मुझे है एक मौके की तलाश
    "There is no greater pillar of stability than a strong, free, and educated woman.”
    Read my poem... ��✌
    __________________________________________________

    उसकी ख्वाहिशों को कर दरकिनार,
    सपनों को तोड़ दिए जाते हैं,
    समाज की छोटी सोच के कारण,
    आज भी कई लड़कियों के कदम,
    मन से पहले ही ससुराल की तरफ मोड़ दिए जाते हैं॥

    क्या कभी सोचा है;
    कि वो भी तो पढ़ना चाहती होगी,
    पढ़-लिखकर अफसर बनना चाहती होगी,
    तो फिर इतनी जल्दी क्यों थी,
    उसके सपनों को अधूरा छोड़,
    उसे शादी के बंधन में बांधने की?

    वो तो अभी किताबों का बोझ उठाना चाहती थी,
    रसोई का नहीं,
    वो तो अभी अपने सपनों से रिश्ता जोड़ना चाहती थी,
    यूं अजनबी से नहीं॥

    यूं तो इस संसार का रीत भी बहुत न्यारा है,
    वो रख सकता चार बहुओं को,
    पर एक लड़की को रख पाना,
    ना उसे गवारा है॥

    आज भी समाज की सोच को लगी है बेड़ियां,
    इसलिए तो मन से पहले ही ब्याह दी जाती है लड़कियां॥
    By-Aradhana Agrahari

    #girleducation#needachange#girlslife#marriage
    #poetry#marriedlife

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    ना जाने क्यों,
    मन से पहले ब्याह दी जाती हैं,
    ये लड़कियाँ॥
    (Read the caption)
    ©_aradhana

  • rishki 73w

    SHE

    Wanted to walk on a path
    Where shadow doesn't chase!
    ©rishki

  • suhani05 76w

    Firstly thnkyou @_aradhana for advising us this topic..that "marital rape is also a rape.."��
    Marital rape is very big social issue. It is act of a sexual intercourse with one's spouse without their consent..!! It is a type of voilence or sexual abuse.
    If uh marry a girl..then it doesn't mean that you have right to do everything with her without her permission. A girl thinks that you love her soul but in reality uh just love her body. Guyz..listen you have no right to force ur wife when she refuses to have sex with you..!! Nd if a girl say no..it means no..!! Uh all should understand it..��..
    So plzz..before doing this all..try to understand her feelings..nd ask her before doing anything with her..��..Bcuz she has 50% ryt in ur marraige..so she has also ryts to take decisions. You r no one to force her for doing anything..��
    "She is ur wife..so treat her like a queen.."��❤️
    #stopmaritalrape
    #stopdomesticvoilence
    #stopdomesticabuse
    #marraigelife
    #needachange
    #changementality
    #wife
    #dontforce
    #takeaction
    #beaware
    #takeactions
    #Womenfeels
    #mirakee
    #mirakeeworld

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    Marital rape..

    She lost her trust in love/relationship..
    Because today he flip..
    He had told her that he loves her soul..
    But after marriage , he just want sex..
    It is his goal..!!
    She believed that with her husband she is safe..
    but in reality.. he treats her like his slave..!!
    She thought that marriage /relationships are beautiful connection..
    but now she wants to take action..
    Bcuz every day she suffers from marital rape..
    but she can't do anything because her mouth is taped..!!
    Her husband treat her like a thing..
    But because she wore his name's ring..
    So she can't do anything..!!
    That night..her groom..
    forcefully pulled her to his room..
    Then the door had been locked..
    Nd now she really shocked..!!
    Then he touched..(her body)
    tightly clutched..(her body)
    then she stop him..
    But he told..
    U r my wife..
    Nd uh have to suffer with this all throughout ur whole life..!!
    Agn she requested ..no..plzz..no..
    But he said..uff , u really don't know..
    Marraige is abt sharing bodies or bed..
    This is what he said..!!
    Now she understands..
    That her love is greedy..
    To only touch her body..!!
    After this all..she really brake down..
    Bcuz today she found..
    That her love/husband call her .. his property..
    Nd said this all is my authority..!!
    (Plz read the caption also)
    ©suhani05

  • _aradhana 76w

    MARITAL RAPE

    She believed,
    marriage is a beautiful bond,
    but it suddenly came to an end,
    when she learned,
    it's all about having sex, sharing bodies and bed.

    That sindoor, that mangalsutra gave him authority,
    that is why for so-called husband,
    she was just like his personal property.

    When she entered the room,
    she got the door locked,
    he was staring at her like a greedy,
    and she was completely shocked.

    He threw her on a bed,
    making her feel like a dead.
    She said NO,
    but no one was there to listen,
    he said, he has full right on her body,
    and for her that beautiful room was just like a prison.

    He forcefully touched her and kissed her,
    and she bounded by the husbandry band, can't even stop him.

    That day she realized,
    her husband do not love her but her body,
    That is what makes him so greedy,

    "This is what known as marital and a legal rape,
    still so many women are there who are not safe,
    without the consent of your wife,
    you cannot be the owner of her body, her life. "

    By-aradhana agrahari


    #needachange#marriage#life#mirakee#poetry#maritalrape

    Marriage does not gives u license to rape...
    Jzt think once... ✌

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    MARITAL RAPE

    Marital rape is also a rape...

    (Read the caption)
    ©_aradhana

  • life_of_orthographer 84w

    I'm waiting to embrace the world
    that taught us
    "Life in this world is temporary"
    The more I wait the more I fall for the serenity of the world.

    The eagerness to meet the world
    reminds me the old self of me
    Where I held the patience to witness the world free from injustices.
    Yet, the hallucination seems to be an illusion.

    The patience transfigured myself as a "pen and thought warrior"
    to transgress the world through pen and thoughts.
    And my mind couldn't stop me from rising into a warrior.

    Alas,
    The thoughts in my memory transferred into a soul of justice speaker.
    And enable to speak to the world of misery.
    Here I'm inking my thoughts, expecting a tremendous journey of change
    And I provided life to my words!

    #lifeasapoetandwriter
    #needachange

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    I'm waiting to embrace the world
    that taught us
    "Life in this world is temporary"
    The more I wait the more I fall for the serenity of the world.

    The eagerness to meet the world
    reminds me the old self of me
    Where I held the patience to witness the world free from injustices.
    Yet, the hallucination seems to be an illusion.

    The patience transfigured myself as a "pen and thought warrior"
    to transgress the world through pen and thoughts.
    And my mind couldn't stop me from rising into a warrior.

    Alas,
    The thoughts in my memory transferred into a soul of justice speaker.
    And enable to speak to the world of misery.
    Here I'm inking my thoughts, expecting a tremendous journey of change
    And I provided life to my words!

    ©aamilasameem

  • adorable_heartbeat 92w

    Respect women

    Phle aaurat ki kya chhavi thi,
    Bs ek kamre m hi vo pdi thi,
    Har julm ka ghoot pi jati thi,
    Or andar hi andar hazaar baar ro jati thi.
    Uska sansaar bhut seemit kr dia tha,
    Pti, bacche, ma-baap usko bs isme hi bhr dia tha,
    Uski shakti ko hi uska shraap bna diya tha,
    Iss sudhaar anchal pr ek paap lga diya tha.
    Shanshilta ki murti thi jo,
    Ek waqt ma durga ki tarah pujti thi jo,
    Har aagan ko smbhaalti thi vo,
    Har hunar ko bkhubi paalti thi vo.
    Iss door m uski ek nayi chhavi aayi h,
    Maano n maano av har taraf ek aurat hi chhayi h,
    Uski har ek acchai ko av naman krna h,
    Uske sath glt krne wale har jaanvar ko av khatm krna h.
    Maanti hu sbko aazadi toh nhi mili h...
    Pr yaad rkhna suruaat toh ho hi chuki h.
    ©adorable_heartbeat

  • sane_in_sane 114w

    THINGS THAT LEFT UNSAID

    I was at my relatives today
    I felt something very strange there.

    There was all 7 people in the house at that time but what surprised me more was no one was talking to each other, everyone was on their phone talking to someone far away from them and texting someone and rest were scrolling social media.

    Where are we going in our life and what are we doing I don't know but i seriously feeling this hunger inside my heart,
    Hunger of talking to my own parents
    Hunger of discussing things with them
    Hunger of sharing some old memories


    Here, I am talking about the memories from my childhood that i made without them, how many things I faced alone and how desperately i want to discuss everything with them, I just want them to know that there was a time when the only thing that I wanted is to share my whole day with my mom and talk to her about how teachers praised me for my good work and behaviour and how my maths teacher use to scold me daily not because he hate me or I am a bad student but he want me to do better in that subject and that's the only reason he used to scold me separately.

    I want to discuss about my future plans with them and I hate it when they ignore my talks and change the topic whenever I try to talk to them.
    They still don't know much about me, my like dislike and other things. I don't want them to know any of that because I'm all grown up and mature now but I wanna talk, I wanna discuss, I wanna laugh while discussing about my school days and stuffs.

    But, yep that's true that you won't always get what you want so just live your life and always try to bring a change for good, it will take time and I know you are thinking that this shit can take forever but trust me it totally worth waiting so just keep trying for your better tomorrow.
    You know you can't change some people's thinking and your past but you can change future by giving a better education and mentality to the one who will come under your supervision, the one whom you will look after and show them the right path.
    So never stop doing good to others it will not gonna cost you anything but it will give you tones and tones of happiness, and who hates being happy
    ©bibliophilic

  • g_r_u_ 156w

    What has man done?

    What has man done ?
    Ruined his life!
    Taking stress for money, name, fame;
    Running this rat race of life!
    This race has taken everything,
    And even destroyed the natural life;

    Stuck in traffic jams for hours,
    With machines emitting poisonous outcomes,
    Taking away something more than your life!

    Sitting in front of a machine, making it more powerful;even more than human intellect, Taking away all sences of life!

    In every thing we do, we surround ourselves with machines!
    Taking away live out of life!

    Ironically, still we think, we are winners of this race called life!
    ©g_r_u_

  • arenegaines 170w

    She ached of a silence
    Words caught in her head
    So many words go unmoved
    Building up like bricks
    Of her favorite game tetris
    Except this isn't tetris
    This is you and me
    If you're not gonna listen
    Then why should I speak

    ©arenegaines

  • smilekiller 173w

    வந்தவரும் போனவரும் வாழ்கிறார்கள்.. வாழ்த்தியவரும் வருத்தியவரும் வாழ்கிறார்கள்.. ஓடும் நீரியெல்லாம் அன்னார்ந்து நகரும் மேகங்களை பார்த்தால் தேங்கி மாசு படும்.. மாசு பட போகிறாயா.. இல்லை மாற்றம் தேடி போகிறாயா..???

    ©meikeerthi

  • smilekiller 181w

    கள்ளம் கயமை தீண்டாத
    சூழ்ச்சி சூனியம் அண்டாத..
    தூய உலகத்தின் மன்னர்கள் நாங்கள்..!
    நண்பர்களின் சிரிப்புச் சத்தம்
    குறும்புகள் கொஞ்சும் நித்தம்..
    இதுவே எங்கள் ராஜாங்கக் கொள்கை..!
    இதழுரியாச் சிறுமொட்டைத் தழுவும் பனித்திட்டைப் போல்…
    குளிர்ந்த மணம் எங்களுடையது..!
    ஆனால்…
    இன்றோ…
    பதற்றம் அப்பிய பார்வையும்..
    விம்மல் கவ்விய வார்த்தையும்..
    கூட்டம் நிறைந்த தனிமையும்..
    எங்கள் அடையாளங்கள்.!
    இது உங்களால்..!
    ஆம் உங்களால்..!
    தொட்டிலிறங்காப் பருவத்தில் எங்களைக் கட்டிலில் இட்டுச் சிதைத்த உங்களால்..!
    பால் பேதம் அறியாப் பச்சிளங் கண்டு சபலம் தட்டிய உங்களால்..!
    கண்டவுடன் துள்ளத் துடிக்கும் துவாரம்தான் உங்களுக்கும் பிறப்பிடம் என்று உணராத உங்களால்..!
    கேளுங்கள்..!
    எங்களுள் சிலர் ஊர் துறந்தோம்..!
    இன்னும் சிலர் உலகத்தையும்..!
    இருக்கும் சிலரோ உள்ளம் செத்த உடல்கள்..!
    தினமிருட்டில் மிருகம் இழுத்துச் செல்லும் கனவுகளில் இருந்து இன்னும் நாங்கள் எழவில்லை..!
    சொல்லத் தெரியாத அந்தப் பயத்தின் கறைகள் எங்கள் வாழ்வில் இருந்து இன்னும் வெளுக்கவில்லை..!
    திருத்தியெழுதுங்கள்..!
    “மனிதன் ஒரு சமூக விலங்கு” எனும் கூற்றை..!
    அறவே இல்லை.. ஆடைதுறந்த விலங்கினத்தில்
    “குழந்தைப் பாலியல் வன்கொடுமை ”

  • ashif840 203w

    Indifferent

    I remember the time when I was a child and used to love Ice Golas. My parents would always advise me against that. "You'll have a sore throat and cold!", "The ice is never really pure.." etc etc. But I was never able to resist the urge of having one. The process of breaking ice for making the Gola, and the texture of that Gola! the colors of different flavors, red, orange, green and especially black! The frosty feeling of excitement around the vendor! I would fight against the whole world if I had to, just to had that tempting Gola.

    Now, after becoming practical with realities of life and indifferent to all the things, I just want to feel that feeling again! Just feel the feeling! Just want to have some goosebumps and some excitement!

  • med_echo 210w

    One more...

    Two connected souls,
    couldn't separate by anyone,
    the casteism did...

    ...She got married...(forcefully)
    ... one more rape...
    ...No justice,never...

    ©adianna_

  • 3am_art 240w

    .Cocoon.

    He made his life within four walls ,wrapped in fear and pain by not letting anyone in.
    Dusk to dawn his voice ecoed back to himself, letting it take control over him.
    It was too late to know he was blind to know the truth.
    He was letting him prison himself.
    Time ran quick, He no longer wanted to stay invisible.
    Now or never he did not wait any longer.
    It was him,It was the fight with himself.
    He pledged not to return back to cocoon again.




    ©3am_art