It's time you stop focusing your energy, time and attention to judgemental people and direct it to people who love to hear you out and support you.
When someone criticizes you, your first instinct is to become defensive and protect yourself. Or maybe you just attack back. But doing this makes you no better than them.
If you don’t like their behavior, then don’t give them the power to change who you are. Don’t let their negativity turn you into a cranky, irritable person who plays the judgmental game right along with them. Choose to stop explaining and walk away.
Choose keenly the plate to whom you pour your emotions into. Don't let the plate be thrown back at your face more uglier than it already looks like.
Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم taught us if you can't say a good word then be quiet.
This applies to both the speaker and listener. To the speaker, if you cannot speak a good word, then remain silent. To the listener, if you cannot reply back with a good word, then remain silent.
Change in life isn't something easily acceptable. With it, comes consequences, mistakes, opportunities, lessons, challenges and growth in our lives.
Bringing emotions on the table can totally change you. Love can change you. Hatred can change you. Before you pass any judgement upon someone, learn about the true inner soul beneath the flesh of that person.
The choices you make now define the inner you.
With your emotional love life, make decisions based upon your present. With your financial part of life, make decisions based upon your future goals.
Our lives are surrounded by constant changes. What happened today may not happen tomorrow. What happened yesterday may never happen in the future.
How someone was past year isn't the same person today. How someone is right now may not be the same in the coming years.