"Irony of life"
you can consider yourself as mature,
when you're already married to somebody else and your love interest despite knowing this fact,dares to ask you to marry him now.
that too at a time when some years have
already passed since your marriage!
now he comically asks you to go back to him.
though,he is the one who had left you.
but behaves like you have left him and got
married to somebody else willingly!
these words,nevertheless don't seem to
bother you even a little bit,they rather sound
so badly meaningless and nonsense to you.
you just don't feel anything after hearing him.
you cclearly feel your detachments regarding
his and your relationship or love affair.
his plea or pinning for your absence now
really mean nothing to you,at all.
If all of the above comes true in your case,
then rest assured,as you've grown strong.
also your maturity is proved now.
It's not the age that make a person mature,
but it's the hard times and bitter experiences
that makes a person mature and practical.
so,your beloveds words are now futile.
Irony is,his time to get back to you is over.
still he fails to understand this.
yes,the actual truth is that you still love him.
want him,but situation doesn't let you be!