Those political hypocrites, who are blessed with the thorn but, turned to be the oppressors & making their people suffer are the real heartless cowards & they will be torn out from rule to base and will confront the day of judgement one day for sure!!
It's quite annoying that a major crowd among us, humans still rely on unrealistic opinions of those who hadn't been in that situation or never want to be for getting our things done even in this era!
That scale includes various parameters of birth, studies, marriage, decisions, achievements, & so on.. till death.
Might be the relegious boundaries, society idiocy, luck dependencies, lack of self esteem, etc... are some reasons for staying in the loose zone. But, in my opinion, the fear of straightening the curve of illogical sense makes up the most!
Instead, we need to build a strong emotional as well as perspective boundaries to build balanced decisions & then rely on our own insights to turn independent!