#ghosted

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  • ticklekink 17w

    We make connections, we get attached
    We fall for someone behind an app..
    We meet their gaze, we see their smile
    Soon to realise, it was just for a while..
    They disappear and become a ghost
    Unspoken reasons, that hurt the most..
    It leaves you empty, it leaves you sad
    Was it me? Is that all the time we had..
    No longer responsive, they avoid and ignore
    Forget your existence and close their door..
    So let them be weak, as they run and hide
    Because you are strong with amazing pride..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 17w

    I gave you every inch of me, inside and out..
    Let you consume my inner core..
    Let you feast on my heart like a delicacy..
    Gave you my body like an offering..
    Poured out my mind like a delicious wine..
    Let you swim in the depth of my soul..
    And for what..
    For you to evaporate into a puff of smoke..
    Leaving me empty to wade through the mist..
    Lost and bewildered wondering why..
    To pick up my bruised breaking heart..
    To try to comprehend the illusion that was you..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 17w

    Fuck u emotions
    Fuck u heart
    Fuck u love
    Fuck u hurt
    Fuck u loss
    Fuck u connection
    Fuck u intensity
    Fuck u sharing
    Fuck u intimacy
    Fuck u feelings
    Fuck u ghost
    Fuck u..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 17w

    Share your beauty but hang on to your emotions..
    Share your body but hang on to your soul..
    Share your desire but don't get attached..
    Fuck him like u own him but don't share your heart..
    Let him shower u with words but don't get sucked in..
    Let him touch and taste u but don't give him your mind..
    Let him kiss and want u but don't give him your love..
    Be his fantasy, ride him good but don't give him u..
    Cause when he ghosts, not once but twice..
    It fucking hurts and u r too beautiful inside for that..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 17w

    Your words..

    'I promise I never want to hurt you on purpose'

    'You should not feel insecure at all, as I have said before I wont run and just ghost you again'

    'I intend to keep my promise to you not just vanish again'

    And yet you did...

  • ticklekink 18w

    One day..
    He will remember her smile..
    He will remember her touch..
    He will remember her words..
    He will miss them so much..
    He will remember her beauty..
    He will remember her fire..
    He will remember her passion..
    He will miss all her desire..
    He will know that he hurt her..
    He will know that she cried..
    He will know he could have talked..
    But instead he chose to hide..
    He will regret that he vanished..
    He will regret that he didn't say..
    He will regret leaving her hanging again..
    And it will haunt him every day..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 18w

    It hurts that I once meant something to you..
    Now I mean nothing at all..
    Just dust in the wind..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 18w

    I hope u feel hurt too
    I hope u miss me
    I hope it haunts u
    I hope u never forget me
    I hope u remember all u said to me
    I hope u r reminded of me daily
    I hope I visit your dreams
    I hope u regret ghosting me
    I promise u.. lies
    I assure u.. lies
    Never hurt u on purpose.. lies

    Frustrated
    Dejected
    Rejected
    Disrespect
    Deflated
    Cruel
    Hurtful
    Inconsiderate
    Shitty
    Cowardly
    Feeble
    Selfish
    Disappointing
    Not fair
    Abandoned
    Humiliated
    Feel stupid
    Used
    Let down
    Lied to

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 18w

    You made me feel more wanted than the most dehydrated desert in the hottest sun...
    Then you hung me out to dry again in the most fierce tropical rain storm..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 18w

    Well my kindred butterfly I guess u have taken flight once more. Sooner or later the wind will slow u down and when u eventually land the beautiful memories of the luscious pastures and the way in which u so heedlessly abandoned her once again, will weigh heavy upon your weary wings..

    ©tk

  • ticklekink 18w

    And so history repeats itself..
    This time I learn the hard way..
    He really is a wolf in sheep's clothing..
    Ate my heart in front of me..
    Then tossed it to the ground..

    ©tk

  • violetpixie 42w

    In this day and age life is really messed up.
    You love and care, you try to be kind.
    Basically try to be a good person.
    I ask myself why? What’s the point?
    Nobody else is like that. Nobody cares. All you do is get taken advantage or ghosted and it hurts.
    Tell me. What’s the point?

    @violetpixie

  • dearzindagi98 58w

    What happens when you get ghosted?

    "Ghosting" what it is?many of you out there are not aware of this word I guess...because few people get to face this situation like me...Ghosting means getting close to someone who make u feel that he/she is the perfect one for you...who shows you all his/her respect, kindness, showers his/her love like anything..one whom u start trusting more than you trust yourself...who you never want to loose....the one with whom u find a heart to heart connection...who u think is your clone.


    BUT ONE DAY SUDDENLY OUT OF NOWHERE THAT PERSON DISAPPEAR
    Without giving any reason without telling what was wrong...no conversation at all..nothing...just nothing... leaves you open-ended....leaves u with sooooo many questions in your head that u can't find answer of...now u start assuming answers of those questions out of frustration...things becomes so complicated that it eventually became difficult to share such emotions with others....many times u try to ask that person straight away but you fail in doing so because somewhere you feel yourself wrong or the reason of this situation or you don't have the courage also you don't want to show that person that you are being hurt....u get suggestions to find someone else try to move on blah blah...but man this is not easy....emotional pain is different from physical pain...u can heal any wound applying medicine...but for emotional wound there is no such thing and yes involving yourself with someone else to overcome this phase is not the solution because doing this u r also using the emotions or feeling of third person to heal yourself and that is not right it will create a vicious circle...but the reality is people do this..even I thought to do the same but I don't have guts to do it...So m still trying my best to overcome this...it's very hard very very very hard...some days I feel like crying throughout...the more I try not to think about that person the more I end up over thinking.

    I would like to request every one reading this out that plz if u are in any kind of relationship even if in friendship and things are not working out well than plz do share or discus with each other and than end up on a mutual decision giving a solid reason for doing so whatever the reason might me...because leaving someone on open-end distroys the person mentally...and doing such kind of behaviour is not mature.U will understand the pain of this Situation when someone do the same to you. I pray may no one go through this.

    At last the only thing according to me which can heal the person in such a situation is time and trust the timing of God..because all what you can do is try the rest is in the stars.
    ©duniya99

  • dwriterph 66w

    I don't know if it's you whom I miss or the memories we had together.

    ©dwriterph

  • rierie_simps 68w

    Ghosted

    Did I do something wrong?
    'Cause your reply never came along
    My heart said to still hold into your promises
    But my mind told me that I'm breaking to pieces

    Our midnight talks and chats for hours
    Were now useless like a withered flower
    After you gave hope and made my life bloom
    You left with my feelings fully consumed

    You started it when you said an unexpected HI
    Now you're gone without a single goodbye
    I, being dumped by some shit-head
    Can say that I'm unquestionably ghosted

    ©rierie_simps

  • shatabdi365 68w

    LITTLE DEVIL

    Hey little Devil,
    I wanna scream and shout, I wanna cry .
    I'm so lonely, to feel the universe inside me.
    I feel like chocking myself, I'm shattered in my head.
    I'm so broken , everything's hollow inside my heart.
    F/w my emotions, I'll end up being ghosted again.


    ©shatabdi365

  • sarahrachelea 101w

    Honey,
    If she or he is ghosting you
    Then let them dead
    You are free to continue and live your amazing life

    ~ Don't forget that you're amazing
    ©sarahrachelea

  • ciara1 104w

    Why Do People Get Ghosted? And How Do We Handle It?

       This topic is how we all have gotten ghosted by someone in our past or those who have got ghosted current in this season. This topic of ghosting is for men and women. Both sexes go through a moment or a period in our lives where someone has ghosted us. Some people do not know what ghosting means. Basically, ghosting is when someone would go MIA on you or just disappears all of a sudden. You would ask yourself why did she leave me like that? You ask them how and why?
          What I am saying is do not be afraid when someone leaves you or disappears on you. Do not take it personally when someone that is close to you such as your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, or even your friend. Do not be afraid if they just up and leave you. 
          I had gone through that experienced a lot in my past. When I would meet someone,  I would hold on to them. I would tell them I never want them to leave me. I would ask them "what can I do to keep you as a friend or a lover?" When I would meet that man or that woman who I wanted to have a relationship with. I would see them for a few months or even a year. I would find myself getting too attached to them, and when that happens all of a sudden they ghost me. They would disappear on me. When I would call them, their phone would always go straight to voicemail. I would never hear from them again. I would find myself at a place of feeling unwanted and lonely. I felt like no one wanted to be with me or even wanted to be my friend. I am not just talking about relationships with your partner or spouse. I am also talking about friendship as well. You thought that person was either the best friend or the best lover you ever had, and when we get too attached to our so-called friends and lovers, they abandon us. We all have been through a situation like that.
          When we all go through situations like that, we have to analyze the situation before it happens. You ask yourself why did I get ghosted? Why did she leave me? Or why did he just up and left me like that? I have been there for this person. I put my all into this relationship with this person. 
          When you get ghosted, you have to step out of your feelings. You have to accept the fact that you have gotten ghosted by this person. Stop lurking and going to find them. Some people want closure, and there are no negotiations. Getting your answers is not the answer sometimes. We all have to leave situations like that to make us powerful and make us grow even stronger and even wiser. That makes you understand why you got ghosted. There is no win to that if someone leaves us today or tomorrow or even next year. Honestly, it can be hard but with the grace of God, we can always find another person to enter our lives. We can always meet a new partner or that special friend that we always wanted to have.
          With that being said, there are reasons why that friend or past spouse or partner had left you. It can be something you did that was wrong, they were not interested in you or did not feel comfortable around you to cut you out of their lives.
        Now with women in particular. Women have suffered this experience so many times either growing up or during childhood. Females getting abandoned, neglected, and a whole lot of trauma. Trauma is the big reason why people ghost people, and mainly women because they had experienced sexual abuse or molestation. It can be a lot of things that cause a lot of trauma that they drag into their life, and that would make them be in a place that they feel they have to be alone. For females that like to be distant or like to be alone, there is discomfort when it comes down to this female in you. 
          In my experience of going through a feeling of abandonment that I needed someone to comfort me when I was having suicidal thoughts of my sexuality. Being bisexual and who I should talk to about that. I could not talk to my mother nor my other family members about me having feelings for men and women. They did not understand that. They are against homosexuality, and when I tried to express myself to them. They would cut me off, and told me being gay or bisexual is immoral. They would tell me it is a sin to like the same sex. As a Christian woman, I disagree because God loves all people for who they are rather if you are a gay man or a gay woman or bisexual. The Lord still loves you for who you are. Do not get me wrong but it is stated in the Bible that homosexuality is a sin. I am not going to contradict God's words and I will never contradict the Lord's words. God accepts me for having feelings for men and women. God accepts you as well for your sexuality. It was hard to find someone to comfort me and to talk to about my depression and suicidal thoughts. A year later I found a friend who is an evangelist at my church to talk to about my homosexual tendencies. I felt comfortable talking to her, and I could relate to her. She informed me that she has a lot of gay and bisexual people in her family. She knows what I was going through. She accepted me, and she did not judge me, and still does not judge me to today. Now that is a true friend for me. My evangelist did not ghost me or abandon me. She was always there for me when I needed her to be. She is still there for me and my child. That is a true friend.
        As far as relationships with a partner. I have told my boyfriend everything I have gone through in my life. I came out to him in 2016 and told him I was bisexual. I still wanted to be with him, but I have feelings towards women as well, and I still do today. I told him every single detail of what I had gone through. I was brutally honest with him about me cheating on him so much. Most people do not have that in them to be brutally honest with their partner or spouse because they would feel that discomfort, and they know how they would react. Everyone can not tell a person everything, and I understand that. I can not tell everyone that is close to me everything. It is all about who you can trust, and who will not ghost you. That person you share your experiences with, you have to trust them. It is all about trust and comfort. I can trust my boyfriend with anything I tell him, and everybody we can not do that with. I am still open to my boyfriend today. I have to always be honest with myself and to him. I always expect him to always be honest towards me as well.
         When there is discomfort,  this can happen to a male as well. They would feel as if they are better off without you, and their needing their space can be you getting ghosted because of that. I mention space a lot in all of my informative poems because space is valuable to a man and a woman. We all need our space on everything we go through in life. I need my space to connect with myself and God. I take all my problems to the Lord, and he will solve them. 
        In some cases, when people ghost you. Sometimes they do not want to hurt you, and then needing some space can be you getting ghosted and them coming back around. Can you all see how that can be so complicated? There are people that come back around for the wrong reasons, where they have someone else, and they still come back to you. There are people that are actually going through things, and they do not know how to cope. Their coping mechanism is them being alone. I can relate to that situation because for so long, I always have been the type that would shut down completely. I would not want anyone, and sometimes I would get to a point where I want to ghost someone just to be alone. Some people will ghost you because it is a game for them.
        There are people that can be so narcissistic and that are very selfish to a point where they will not care. They would like the feeling they get at the end of it. Everything revolves around them. You can not get an answer, and getting ghosted happens for multiple reasons. This is such a big topic I really wanted to discuss because this is very important. People get ghosted often. There are a lot of people I heard who have gotten ghosted in this season of this pandemic because of social distancing. Couples, spouses, and friends have gotten ghosted during these hard days of this pandemic. Some have left others because they could not or still can not see them often because of the virus. That is what makes some people give up on their relationships.     
         One other thing in ghosting can also be a hit-and-run. Men or women can get sex from you and then they are out. That is why I always talk about the chasing situation. Being desperate, it is not a good thing to be desperate. Get on your purpose in life, where you can not live your life for anyone or are depressed because someone has left you. We are supposed to live our lives for ourselves. If someone is ghosting you, it is more of an acceptance. Just pray and move forward in your life.




     

         

         



    ©ciara25
    ©ciara1

  • ciara1 104w

    Why Do People Get Ghosted? And How Do We Handle It?

    This chapter is about how and why people ghost people. Please check out my next post.