Friendship has it's own ups and downs. And unlike a relationship.. It's much more complicated. Often it is said... If we can't be friends, we can't love each other. Or the key to continue a relation it to be friends and share the maximum. Clearly, being friends despite all the flaws is the most complex thing to do. A good friend needs to stick around and prepare to listen for rain check from their friends. Friendship is not always trying the new things and going for adventures.. but understanding them and as lame as it may sound, hanging out at the same places coz it is comfortable after all the heated up week. Sure we adult and find ourselves occupied most of the time with the work.. it still clicks in our mind the happy moments we spent with our friends and looking out got each other's company. Coz that's what friends are for, right? Life gets tough but knowing that you got your friends by your side to lend a shoulder to cry on is a relief. Happy friendship day to all the amazing friends who have played their part in others' lives. ~HJ☆
I think you deserve the world, yet somehow I don’t think you always see that. But I want you to know, I often find my own self wondering what I did to deserve you.
You taught me what a soulmate really is, and I wouldn’t be able to survive without having you in my life. You come in to people’s lives with a purpose and you change them. You make every single person around you better, without even realizing it.
You’re the person that someone can only live without, if they’ve never lived with them before. You light up every room, and lift up every single person around you. People need you.
Because you’ll hold them while they cry, and then be ready to beat down the person that made them cry ten minutes later. You’ll make them laugh even when they’re sad and you’ll forgive them for what they said when they were mad.
You believe in them even when they don’t believe in themselves. You’re there for them even when they haven’t always been there for you. And you care for them before you even care for yourself.
You get to know them down to their very core, even when they’re hard to get to know. You go to war for the people that you love, and do it without even thinking. Love isn’t an option for you. It’s just who you are and it makes you the most beautiful soul I have ever known. Because your love isn’t fearful, or weak. It’s the most powerful force that I have ever felt—indestructible and unconditional.
But you’re not only what everyone else around you needs. You’re all that you need. Because you are so much stronger than you have even begun to realize. You’re honest and caring. You’re hilarious and intelligent. You’re strong and compassionate. You’re beautiful, and you’re frekin powerful.
You change people, but you don’t let people change you. And don’t ever let them. Never let any single person come in to your life and make you believe that you ever have to be more of anything because you’re already more than all of us combined.
And I know you will never see yourself in the way that I have written here, but just know that I see it in you every single day. It’s why you deserve the world. Because you change it.