Linofaple!
Things are not as simple as it is.
Life is difficult.
Yet you have to find light.
Life not unfair, but the people who have it.
©vbear9396
#fairness
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vbear9396 35w
Tao'y magkakaiba.
Kahit na gaano kalaki ang iyong naitulong,
Kapag dumating ang panahon.
Ikaw na ang nasa sitwasyon walang wala.
Wala ka nang aasahan.
Gigipitin ka pa.
#consideration #appreciation #fairness @writersnetwork @miraquill10 0loftydreams101 43w
Tomorrow's Plains of Glory
Burning on the brink of annihilation
Of the blast
Of calamity
Of sweet savagery
~
As the angels of denial
Sing tolls of affection
To delude our hot blood
Surging forward to war
~
Pushed and prodded by our gods
Over mountainous years
The fight has only begun
In our pain-stricken eyes
~
Our fatal stares will live
Beyond the course of our stars
In the cold hearts of kin
Marching to their own plains
Of sure destruction
© 2021 William Wright, Jr.7 1-
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psychologygirl 72w
OCD
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a disorder in which people have recurring, unwanted thoughts, ideas or sensations (obsessions) that make them feel driven to do something repetitively (compulsions).
Its not only related to washing hands, rechecking etc.
It was 7 years back...
A girl who was in high school, was not happy with her skin colour.
Better to say she feel little when watching other with fair skin tone.
Her brothers used to make fun of her.
How "KAALI" she's and how different she is.
Hence these "so called opinions" make her feel "OBESSIVE" about her colour.
These unwanted, continous and unavoidable thoughts make her feeling worst about herself.
To overcome these obessions, she find a way.
She started using a "STEROID CREAM"
(These types of cream are used for lightening skin colour)
Within just few days of usage her skin colour changed exceptionally.
Getting compliments was a like Goal Achievement. No more heartbreaking comments.
This become a "COMPULSION" for her.
She couldnt stop herself using that cream, as when she stop using it small acne bumped in her face.
This continous for around 5-6 years...
Now she's in category of fair coloured people.
Hurray...
It was in 2021 she realized her skin was getting thin each day.
Now it's so sensitive that even lotion reacts on her skin making her face red entirely. There were rashes, uneven skintone , dryness , hyperpgimentation and what's not.
Her face was more dull than earlier in her teenage.
She went to the " dermatologist ".
You wont believe what doctor said :
"USING SUCH CREAMS JUST FOR 10 DAYS IS EXTREMELY HARMFUL, and you're using it from such a long time. You can understand how much you need to pay for it now. Your skin will take alot of time to get back to normal. As these creams break the barricades of skin and allowing all skin problems comming altogether "
*These creams also causes Cancer*
This girl was me.
And sharing this experience was for only one reason.
BODY SHAMING can be of any type
As teens we are filled with n no of harmonal changes which resulted in different bodily problems.
For this the takeaway is :
♒ Stop using these creams as early as possible.
♒ Consult the doctor at the earliest.
♒Make sure not to reuse these creams again no matter what.
♒ Love yourself as you are.
♒ As a parent and as a society make sure you don't comment on children's colour or body changes.
♒ As an adult you first need to accept harmonal changes is not a taboo.
♒ Please, dont make fun of your children.
©psychologygirl21 2 1psychologygirl 76w
MUST READ POST
Do you heard about AYESHA from Ahmedabad?
You must be, if not she committed suicide on 25th last month releasing a video as her husband tortured her brutally.
is MENTAL TORTURE a big think?
Okay we'll get into this later.
Have to seen dove's new Ad
#StopTheBeautyTest
Is there a Correlation between the two?
Okay lets take one more example:
Few days back one family came to my house for my rista.
My father told me to apply BB Cream to look white and he said
"Apan ko kisi bhi halat me apne aap ko pasand karvana hi hai iss bar. Aur unhone aap se pucha ki ap shadi ke bad padhyengi ya job krengi to apko "haan" nahi bolna hai, apko bolna hai jese apke ghar me hoga me vesa karungi"
That uncle asked my father-
Shadi me aap kitna karcha karengy?
Or apni beti ko kya kya dengy?
Ahh! Can you now see the correlation!
Every girl has been told:
"Bardast karna seekho"
"Ladki ghar se dulhan banke jaati hai par vapis अर्थी mehi aati hai"
Etc etc.....
1) First correct this "BARDAST" meaning and set a limit.
2) Dont push your daughter's into a Marriage where her worth is not weighted
3) Accept "TALAAK" as an option. Do not think what others will say.
4) take "Pre-Matrial counseling" to fill those missing gaps.
5) Compromise and adjustments are part of every relationship but that's not a thing of only one partner.
6) As a parent , Make your daughters Believe that you'll be there no matter what.
As a girl what can you do?
1) Observe thoroughly
2)Talk straightforward
3)check whether there's possibility of Compromise! If yes, is it from both the sides?
4) Do not marry someone when you're heart is saying No.
5) where DEMANDS are first, you first and last option should be always NO
6)You can never be without an option remember that and allah is with you.
**jiski jaha kismat hai,
rista wahi hota hai.
Talaaq ke bad bhi,
Dubara nikaah hota hai**
©psychologygirl28 10 4- psychologygirl @hanaan_jr i want you to share this post
- hanaan_jr @psychologygirl yeah i will ❤❤
- psychologygirl @hanaan_jr thankyou
- manthanprateek Beautifully penned✍️✍️
- psychologygirl @manthanprateek thankyou
sharonvjoseph 76w
©sharonvjoseph
25 6 4- sharonvjoseph @elusive_me yeahhh
- fromwitchpen Deep
- zayan8316 Really like the irony observation
- sharonvjoseph @fromwitchpen yeah
- sharonvjoseph @zayan8316 thanks
jzpenningmyfeelings 76w
Moonlight✨
P.S. - used archaic words for this writeup. I Will be happy to get corrected if I'm wrong.
#moon #moonlight #spotlight #archaic #infatuation #fairness #goodly #writersofindia #dialect #indianwriters #writer #mesmerization
#jzpenningmyfeelingsOne hath to come hence infatuation on the delusional spotlight;
To hither the magical fairness of the Moonlight.
Let thy mesmerize in the goodly of the moon.
©jzpenningmyfeelings10 0enalacran_morgan 96w
Farewell
When my tears dry up
Show me the beauty of the stars
When my tears dry up
Show me the future in my past
When my tears dry up
Show me the essence of a smile
If my tears dry up
Promise to value every drop that I shed
©enalacran_morgan10 0 1poetrydelivery 110w
You can always say what the world needs to hear....
But you won't always hear what you need to hear from the world
©poetrydelivery100630 3 3One For Another
For a seed to fall and flower,
A blossom must fruit and wither;
For that flower to bloom and prosper,
The soil must nurture,
The skies must whimper.
For a child to exist there must be a mother;
For that life to have laughter,
That mother must foster.
To live the brighter future,
Many chose now to suffer.
To run just a little further,
One would sacrifice another.
©emily_cjw7 2- raigami I have just read this one, and this is phenomenal. I will read others when I am in mood of writing and inspiration. Keep up the good work.
- emily_cjw @raigami Thanks for reading Glad that someone likes it!
What Bugs the Heart
Is Life fair?
Life is Unfair
No life is just
What kind of justice is that?
Pure envy is what it is
How are you so sure?
These questions fucks the heart.
The timeline of our lives wants and desires
Too much
The heart can't keep up
So it breaks
And leaves the mind
With a disarray of questions
And talks of badluck
Wow, He got a good job and a car
And all i want is a job that help me survive
She's been married for 3 years
I can't even attract a guy
Dude got a promotion
But I bring better results than he does
She has two kids already
And i have none despite the chastity
We are in a world whose rules seems paradoxical
You do good, you get bad
And those who do worse, get paid in good kind
What kind of life do I have?
The real question is
What do we do to make sense out of all of it?
The answer
Nobody knows, Every one tries
Some suceed, some do not
But then, that's life.
And Life fucks us all over
Probably Sitting in a corner
Laughing off man's struggles
©lord_sheks9 0khyraaaron 138w
I love people who fight for what they believe in, providing it's for a fairer world and I love how they encourage others to speak of their truths, I love how these people, despite being tossed to the sides and ignored, they keep on fighting and never giving up. I love them for their honesty and courage. Those are my kind of people. Fighting for a better world
©KA32 1 6Life
Let the guilty received his dues and repent
Let the innocent stay free and fresh
Life is not fair but we can wish
Revenge should not even be considered as a dish
©airamos083 0Don't do to others, what you don't want them to do to you.
7 0triciajohansson 145w
Used to
Fairness
Pride
Please don't hide
Lovliness aside
Throw out the fear
We won't fall
Healing is here
I promised it all
To her
To me
To us
Let it be
As it used to.
©triciajohansson11 0emily_cjw 147w
Contrast
Where there is light,
There is a shadow.
Where there is laughter,
There will be sorrow.
All the bright faces
Have once worn a frown.
Within our sharp edges,
There's one which is round.
Perfections in imperfections,
The truth lies beyond distraction.
With each side that calls completion,
There will be a space for correction.
©emily_cjw6 0Fair & Lovely
I don't care about your fairness.
You are lovely already!
©mprem1359710 0kelly10belly10 156w
#BeKind
To your family
To your friends
To your loved ones
To your school
To your boss
To your class mates
To your band
To your choir
To the police
To all
To everyone
Be kind
©kelly10belly1015 2heenajoshi 162w
A fairness claiming cream
committed suicide on failing to commit
what it was supposed to.
She did not know that visions,
not skins are dark.
©theinsaneink15 2 1- nocturnal_muse_ Ha!!..i love your writing style well said agn
- heenajoshi @nocturnal_muse_ hey . Heartfelt gratitude. Thanks a ton :)
miriel_oye 165w
Just Ice
When I heard the word JUSTICE,
I thought of something cool,
Like water, air,
Or even the harmattan,
I thought of something real,
Like the blue of the sky,
And the green of the ground in sweet supple Summer...
But,
Society sells water now,
And the air we breathe has thickened
(With what? You tell me.)
We face the backside of the harmattan,
(The sun in our throats, the dust at our feet, what can't you see?),
-
So when I hear the word JUSTICE,
I think of the faded blues and colorless leaves,
I think of it as Just Ice,
Ice so cold it burns.
©miriel_oye25 0 1maniac16 174w
Fair
I've heard a million times that the world isn't fair
Its something I brush off my shoulder, never really giving it any thought
That was until I witnessed firsthand that the world truly, wasn't fair. Its not just a saying or a comeback, its something that holds truth. Nothing here is fair. And I find it unsettling that I have to sit here and deal with. That's there is nothing I can do about it.
Its not fair.
©maniac16