Getting people to do something by asking for the opposite. Reverse psychology is a persuasive technique that involves getting someone to engage in the desired action or response by suggesting the opposite.
This involves emotional desire. Getting someone to experience and feel the guilt so you can feel free and not have the guilt strangling your throat.
By playing the innocent one in the game so that the other person could feel guilty and think they've done wrong. This makes the other person feel guilty and doubt their own decisions. It affects self-confidence.
To the one misusing reverse psychology card, do not misuse it so you could avoid self-guilt. Your instincts would definitely tell you deep down the guilt is still there. Face it and not throw it to an innocent person.
To the one being thrown this card, trust your guts and believe in facts. Don't let emotions fool you to doubting your own decisions. Be strong and take time to digest the information before you believe it all to be true. Don't let guilt overtake your innocence.
Reading a book or attending a session about an Islamic ruling you wish to study on or know more about, give you the opportunity to gain more knowledge about it. Whereas, Shaykh Google gives you just the exact answer to your question but you miss out on being exposed to more than just the answer.
That's why we see ourselves going back to Google next time we have an issue.
Not everything on Google is authentic Islam. You have to sieve through what you take. How would you know what to take and what to leave ?
By having the principles / conditions in mind. You gain those from institutes and centres of gaining knowledge.
It's time we stop depending on Shaykh Google.
The way of the salaf were to gain knowledge from books and lectures. Not everyone's learning preference is reading and listening. I know that. But, you can still use your learning preference to still gain the same knowledge. Whether it's auditory or reading or kinesthetic(physical) or visual or verbal or logical or social or solitary or even just combination of more than one learning preference.
Goodness thrives when we accept to change our future for the better life not just for ourselves but for others as well.
Do unto others what you want them to do to you. Treat all with kindness and love.
Most of those afflicted with miserable childhood memories they tend to protect their children from getting the same treatment. However, they fail to recognise that they are repeating the same behaviour to other people in the name of "Protecting their OWN." When you decide to end it, then end it for all. Don't specify but generalize to all.
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It's been months that I last touched you, felt you. There's a bond we create when we touch, a deeper connection when we look in the eyes of the person sitting across to us, something so lively and vibrant.
But now it's been months that we've held or embraced each other. We're growing cold and distant towards each other. There are things we forget to tell but neither of us seem to mind anymore. The messages keep getting shorter and as we run out of topics to discuss, chat's getting full of meme's to LOL on.
It's been months that I was last tracing your palm with my finger tips and I look exquisitely at all the wounds that have now healed but have scarred you. We keep sending each other our best pics, cute pics, making faces or looking exhausted kinda pics.
It's been months that we've last hugged, tickled or ruffled each other's hair. We get happy at the sound to our voices in the voice notes we leave for each other. They make my worst day do-able.
But its been months since I last saw you and we're forgetting each other, the time we've spent together is getting less against the time we've spent apart. That's the thing with these staying virtual together. But you dont understand the importance of a simple touch until you dont get to hold one another.