Go, Get married, To a beautiful girl who is healthy from the inside. Because a girl with a question mark on her child bearing skills does not have many customers in the marriage market. Achievements, dreams, passions, hardly matter when a girl's main skill is to bring a new life into this world. All those dreams, passions, ambitions, are merely a survival mechanism for the person who'll be there at a stall in the marriage market, waiting for a customer to come. Then those medals won't increase her value, she'll have to be grateful that atleast she was chosen. At that instance, those certificates and appreciation letters won't matter, they won't show the great skills of the girl, the greatness would lie with the prospective groom and the family for being magnanimous enough to accept the girl with her 'flaws'.
At some stage of life, maybe you too are faced with this situation, I hope that never happens, but if it does, just be prepared....
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I began reflecting on my experience in high school, I was about as average a kid as one could be, but everyone has such a positive view of me and I never understood it. I was and have been so often fixated on my own thoughts and insecurities, that I forget who and what I really am to the people around me. I knew people viewed me well, but I didnt want to have confidence in it out of fear of becoming narcissistic. The reality though, was that I was already condescending with my thoughts and actions towards people, those who looked up to me, and when I realized this and the negative affect it had on them, I struggled even harder to view myself in a positive light and to find stable ground in my mind.