#bodyshaming

161 posts
  • dosbambi 12w

    Stretch marks can sometimes be used to body shame ladies, I used to be disgusted by them myself. But then, I learnt about the stories these stretch marks keep, and I changed.

    I changed because these stories make perfect sense, and they sure are beautiful.


    #dosbambiwrites #dosbambiinspires #bodyshaming #selflove #strech_marks #sexybody #beautiful #truth

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    she has these beautiful lines
    that stretch across her bum
    and her cleavages
    they tell tales of the strength
    her gorgeous body possess
    they shine like the stars
    in the sky at nights
    they embellish her body
    nature has given her body
    these tattoos to orate her wins

    ©dosbambi

  • sidh_ru 17w

    #bodyshaming #characterassasination #world #cruel #family #body #changes
    @writersnetwork @miraquill.

    I wanted to write this for a long time,but I didn't. Today I felt an urge to write this. Not so composed, yet I wrote it out of experiences. So bear with this one ��.

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    What next?

    This world pushed me to a dark deep corner when I was just a pure naive small girl, I didn't even knew what happened to me and my body, I didn't knew what is puberty, I didn't knew what is hormonal changes, I didn't knew what those words were meant to be, I didn't knew why those ignorances were there, I didn't knew why I was being humiliated, I didn't knew when I became their topic to be commented and made fun of, I didn't knew why there were irrational rejections, I knew nothing other than my small world of my family and my studies where no one heard my silent cries. I was torn, ripped off every muscles of my heart, wrecked because of unanswered questions, tired of pretending to be fine in front of my family. I was just morphed to something even I can't figure out what I had became. An innocent introvert as I was, I became a diva to make everyone to hear my voice. Every one walked over me before my change, every one talked over my character after my change, didn't knew that once I was used to be a very nice person. Still they tag me with names not only for appearance also for my character, but differently my loved ones too added to it. Body shaming to character assassination, then next I don't know.I don't know how I should morph this time.
    ©sidh_ru

  • sidh_ru 17w

    Chance.

    Oh god!
    Thanks for your courtesy.
    Courtesy to give me
    This life, mind, heart and body.
    I am cherishing your charity
    With every ounce of time.
    Please forgive those sinners
    Who speak less of your art piece,
    Make fun of your endowment,
    Give low grade names to your holiness;
    My body.
    I think they are corrupted,
    Corrupted by this polluted air of earth,
    Polluted with evil deeds.
    So please give them a chance
    To realise their mistakes,
    To ask for forgiveness,
    Redeem them from their sin.
    ©sidh_ru

  • inked_by_charu 36w

    Body shaming!

    My face my race
    My tone my bone
    My scar and score
    That keeps you talk more!

    How long on earth
    gonna be are you
    Once gone,
    nothing's there for you!



    ©inked_by_charu

  • nocturnal_enigma 39w

    * 11.11.2021; 4.17 A.M (Malaysia)

    * 1st line is for body-shamers.

    * 789th post ��

    #BodyC #body #challenge @writersbay #MyBody

    #BodyShame #BodyShaming
    #NuEmBodyShameless (2nd. Read 1st one too)

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    -ing ~

    True. Our bodies are fat. Stop body-shaming.
    I run on treadmill. Good for body-shaping.
    Eventhough, it's tiring, I just keep on running.
    Chickenpox scars that can't dissapearing.
    Bulging veins that causes pain. So paining.

    © Nuruliffa Emirah
    @ nocturnal_enigma

  • nocturnal_enigma 39w

    * 11.11.2021; 3.55 A.M (Malaysia)

    -mosa ~

    Yes. We're fat. But, we are NOT chismosa.
    Stop body-shaming. Just cuz' U are famosa.
    Don't feed him pagpag. Let me fry a samosa.
    Yes. I am fierce, furious and wild; So mosa.

    © Nuruliffa Emirah
    @ nocturnal_enigma

    * For: A body-shamer. Him is my #crush #AHBA

    #BodyShame #BodyShaming
    #NuEmBodyShameless (1st. Read 2nd one too.)

    Someone write in her FB's bio.: "Welcome, sismosa" She actually meant Chismosa. Meaning: Gossiper. In one of her recent posts, she shared about fat women are gossipers. Such a bias! My crush's Mom & me, we are both fat. But, we are not gossipers. We become fat because we like to eat food, not, because of gossiping others. Well, right now I have to gossip about her, though, for this post. She thinks, skinny women like her is not a gossiper, huh. The irony is she gossip about us. LOL. I hope that, she will become fat like us, so that she knows how it's like to be fat. One of the downsides of being fat, is shortness of breath. I used to be skinny too! I hope that I can lose weight, as soon as possible!

    ~

    Mosa (Japanese) = fierce, rave, rush, become furious, wildness, strength./Tough, wild one, fearless fighter.

    Chismosa (Tagalog) = Gossiper

    Famosa (Portuguese) = Famous

    Samosa =  a South Asian fried or baked pastry with a savory filling like spiced potatoes, onions, peas, chicken and other meats, or lentils. It may take different forms, including triangular, cone, or half-moon shapes, depending on the region.

    Pagpag (Tagalog) = leftover food from restaurants scavenged from garbage sites and dumps. Pagpag food can also be expired frozen meat, fish, or vegetables discarded by supermarkets and scavenged in garbage trucks where this expired food is collected.

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    -mosa ~

    Yes. We're fat. But, we are NOT chismosa.
    Stop body-shaming. Just cuz' U are famosa.
    Don't feed him pagpag. Let me fry a samosa.
    Yes. I am fierce, furious and wild; So mosa.

    © Nuruliffa Emirah
    @ nocturnal_enigma

  • l_chapman 41w

    Self Image

    When we fall over broken fragments
    And hope that beneath all this pain
    We can find the piece to make us whole,
    We realise that it's not easy.
    We drown ourselves beneath a need
    We choke on an air of validation
    We crave to be noticed by them -
    A society's ideals on who you are to be.
    So you hurt to make yourself whole.
    You cradle the body you are
    And nurture the ever hungry beast within
    Just to sit there and realise
    You are not complete.
    Its the sway of guilt that comes next,
    The riptides of sadness pulling you under
    Rocking you to sleep in a crippling embrace
    As you strive through every day
    With a ghost in your eyes
    And a gripping clutch on your still beating heart,
    Because those rippling waters
    Make perfection out of broken things,
    By wearing it down until nothing is left,
    But the idea that we are not yet perfect.

    ©l_chapman

  • moody_pen77 41w

    Subtle.

    My phone is a vicious master
    It is a wolf in a sheepskin
    It subtly destroys me
    Posing as my kin.
    Pictures of beautiful models
    White, slim, tall and blond
    Clad in desirable attires
    Asking me to open my purse.
    I lay on my bed,
    I, brown, curvy, short, black haired.
    I hold a packet of chips in my hand
    And I imagine myself looking as gorgeous as the model.
    And I succeed. For a while.
    Until I check the mirror,
    Or I go out and am bombarded by people
    Parents and friends and siblings alike
    Who look like me
    Who should understand
    Who don't.
    They give their opinions and I carry them with me unconsciously.
    I wake up daily and eat the same food my sisters and friends do.
    I go for a run.
    Daily.
    The opinions of others a heavy load, weighing me down.
    I look at my laptop, at the film I watch.
    I observe the beautiful actress,
    White and Slim and Tall and Blond.
    I imagine myself looking like that.
    I fail.

    ©moody_pen77

  • madinah_writes 50w

    For I Am A Black Woman

    In the click of my heels,
    The brush of my eyelids,
    The leather of my naturally tanned skin,
    Is me, for I am a black woman.

    In the wing of my arms,
    The glow of my eyes,
    The power of my tongue,
    The words of my mouth,
    Is me, for I am a black woman.

    In the flourish of my hair,
    The maps on my palm,
    The curves if my body.
    The magic in my name
    Is me, for I am a black woman.

    © Madinah_Writes

  • its_me_km 51w

    Body Shaming

    Yes I have belly fat. So what? I know I am still beautiful with that. What's the worry? Those who are having problems with me please stay away.
    ©its_me_km

  • harilakshmiii 53w

    Dear fellow humans,
    Do not proceed to hating your bodies just because a some bigot somewhere gathered other bigots and decided what a perfect body should look like.
    ©harilakshmiii

  • __sakura__ 58w

    I would've been okay had you and a group of people called "society" didn't give me looks and words of contempt for being overweight.
    I lost weight just to make you people accept me and then you said I've lost too much and I need to gain a bit more before marriage.
    Seriously what's your point?
    And do you really think I'm gonna cause an earthquake or would fly away in the wind?
    Why don't you think twice before opening that mouth of yours to spit such hateful words?
    What makes you think its okay to tell such things to someone?
    Why do you keep copying such venomous things others do or say?
    Don't you think you've failed as a human being, despite all these years of education?
    Everytime you say or act in a hateful manner towards others who are struggling, you're becoming the reason they're being thrown into depression!
    You're also inspiring someone else to do these same despicable acts!
    People like you make me want to develop a machine to censor words!
    But you all would still find ways to spread the hate..
    All your mindless advices covered in the name of concern actually shows how ignorant, insensitive and brainless you are.

    Stop spreading hate.
    Start living.
    Love and inspire.
    Support and grow.
    Everyone is struggling, even the ones who smile all the time, the ones who crack jokes and laugh all the time.
    Depression doesn't mean they're always sitting alone with doors shut.
    And try not to be the reason behind someone getting hurt.
    Be kind.
    Learn, and educate.
    @__casper__



    #midnightrants #bodyshaming

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    Body shaming

    Do you really think I'm gonna cause an earthquake or would fly away in the wind?
    (Read caption)
    ©__casper__

  • roopa7 63w

    My insecurities...

    BEFORE 17:
    Crooked teeth ..else a reason behind it...it won't make us to smile freely in public...
    I never ever reveal my insecurities...Infront of anyone...I offended becoz of body shaming..
    Searching for someone who consoles me...
    I struct in my self boundaries...!!
    Low self esteem..

    AFTER 17:
    Insecurities are just my flaws...I buried all my humiliations in dark past...
    Take it...and throw out it one shade from my gist...
    Pondering about it & I uncover my flaws fearlessly....
    Body shaming is not an offense...!!!
    I know how to wipe my tears...?puberty hit hard!!!

    Regain my self esteem ...manage my self boundaries with whole heart.


    ©roopa7

  • moon_miracle 64w

    Moti wohi nhi moti tou tumhari soch hai
    Badsurat woh nhi badsurat tou tumhari ankhain hain tumhary daikhnay ka nazriya badsurat h tum badsurt ho isiliye tumhy woh badsurat dikhayi deyraha h ailaj karalo apna
    ©moon_miracle

  • 12mizzy 69w

    #bodyshaming#body#figure#acceptance#beatyourselfup#ceesreposts
    @mirakee @writersnetwork @11maria

    Body shaming is fun
    Until it's your body
    Whether its stranger or a close one
    The comment on figure always sucks
    I drink and eat from the money i have
    Did i borrow from your graveyard
    I know my belly fat touching my chest
    But who are you to tell me that?
    My slim thighs turning thick
    I can't jump because you will start judging
    The time you see my face full of spots and pimples
    You will start giving me the solutions
    I was all fine vibing alone and watching Netflix
    Till it comes to attend a family functions with relatives
    So judgemental!
    You can simply judge me
    But can you realise
    How many times my mind strikes for suicide
    I was meant to love myself
    But People around me,
    Taught me to hate myself
    I always try to fix up my body
    Though, it was never broken!
    ©12mizzy

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    I'm stuck in my body till I die,
    What good is it going to do
    if I'm mean to Myself?


    ©12mizzy

  • psychologygirl 72w

    OCD

    Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a disorder in which people have recurring, unwanted thoughts, ideas or sensations (obsessions) that make them feel driven to do something repetitively (compulsions).

    Its not only related to washing hands, rechecking etc.

    It was 7 years back...
    A girl who was in high school, was not happy with her skin colour.
    Better to say she feel little when watching other with fair skin tone.

    Her brothers used to make fun of her.
    How "KAALI" she's and how different she is.


    Hence these "so called opinions" make her feel "OBESSIVE" about her colour.
    These unwanted, continous and unavoidable thoughts make her feeling worst about herself.

    To overcome these obessions, she find a way.
    She started using a "STEROID CREAM"
    (These types of cream are used for lightening skin colour)

    Within just few days of usage her skin colour changed exceptionally.

    Getting compliments was a like Goal Achievement. No more heartbreaking comments.

    This become a "COMPULSION" for her.
    She couldnt stop herself using that cream, as when she stop using it small acne bumped in her face.

    This continous for around 5-6 years...

    Now she's in category of fair coloured people.
    Hurray...

    It was in 2021 she realized her skin was getting thin each day.

    Now it's so sensitive that even lotion reacts on her skin making her face red entirely. There were rashes, uneven skintone , dryness , hyperpgimentation and what's not.

    Her face was more dull than earlier in her teenage.

    She went to the " dermatologist ".

    You wont believe what doctor said :

    "USING SUCH CREAMS JUST FOR 10 DAYS IS EXTREMELY HARMFUL, and you're using it from such a long time. You can understand how much you need to pay for it now. Your skin will take alot of time to get back to normal. As these creams break the barricades of skin and allowing all skin problems comming altogether "

    *These creams also causes Cancer*


    This girl was me.
    And sharing this experience was for only one reason.

    BODY SHAMING can be of any type


    As teens we are filled with n no of harmonal changes which resulted in different bodily problems.

    For this the takeaway is :

    ♒ Stop using these creams as early as possible.
    ♒ Consult the doctor at the earliest.
    ♒Make sure not to reuse these creams again no matter what.
    ♒ Love yourself as you are.
    ♒ As a parent and as a society make sure you don't comment on children's colour or body changes.
    ♒ As an adult you first need to accept harmonal changes is not a taboo.
    ♒ Please, dont make fun of your children.


    ©psychologygirl

  • nonanonymous 74w

    .Fat. F.A.T. faT.

    "None in our family approves of a 'fat body'. It is unhealthy and awkward, might grow even fat over the years. Try and lose some weight. You will be better that way..." Advised his parents to her.

    All these comments when the 'THIN' in their family are unhealthy...



    What do I say more?

    When will this change?

    ~just feel like screaming out to the world yet again that FAT DOESN'T MEAN UNHEALTHY, and thin, healthy.~

    Literally tired of the societal norms, and NOT MY HEALTHY F.A.T BODY!

    Period.


    ©nonanonymous

  • giri_a10 83w

    No Bazzinga for you

    So this bitch said she
    wanted a man exactly like me
    but in a taller ripped body
    like a bollywood hollywood hero,
    wealthier and preferably royal blood.

    i said, its oky,
    You will find the man you deserve.
    i didn't say bazzinga.

    if someone looks at biriyani and sees shit
    she would definitely end up eating shit.
    and i really didn't want to miss that wedding
    May be i'll find some good biriyani at the wedding.

    Took one last mental picture of her,
    and gave it a million middle fingers.


    ©giri_a10

  • cobydaniels 85w

    Mirrors

    This is for all the women
    That have ever been body shamed-
    You are more than enough
    Just the way you are
    You are a masterpiece

    When they look at your body
    And label you a freak
    Do not break your stride
    March on with pride
    For your out-of-shape body is a testament
    To the formlessness of life itself
    Before time. Before the beginning.
    Tell them you are the source of all life
    That the source of all life is formless

    We choose to give things perspective
    We stay boxed in by prison bars
    That are all up in our heads
    So no matter what they say
    Do not lose your mind

    You look in a different place
    They look at the universe for a mirror
    They search for beauty in chaos
    But you, remember always
    You look into your soul
    To see what you are

    A masterpiece
    Intentional
    Fearfully and wonderfully sculpted
    So do not let them blind you
    You are more than enough.
    ©cobydaniels

  • ndichuu 88w

    My recent rabbit hole. Where I just couldn't figure out, from the perspective of a poet, what really governs the body of a human being.


    #mirakee #rabbithole #thebody #blood #self-hatred #bodyshaming #growth #younglove #time #growth #feelings #govern

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    GOVERNS THY BODY?

    Sand slips so fast.
    But some bodies never grow in haste.
    Hormones are sometimes surpassed,
    By this illusion that is vast.
    So I ask, what?
    What governs thy body?

    In a world filled with body shaming.
    They think all bodies are same in,
    Growth and thickness while proclaiming
    "The fat are ugly and lame."
    Feelings of self-hatred they inflame.
    So I ask, what?
    What governs thy body?

    Real love is like a raging fire.
    At the same time it is like the zephyr.
    At what time dost thou require
    They say you're too young for that desire.
    And that it will make your life dire.
    So I ask, what?
    What governs thy body?

    Hormones or time?
    Heart or mind?
    Veins or blood?
    One's perception or,
    What people say?
    What really governs thy body?
    So I ask.
    ©ndichuu