As nothing ever comes easy by force.
We can not change unwillingness, and the sooner we accept this reality over disappointment, then the better we'll become in our individual journey towards seeking emotionally fullfilling experiences that is going to expand our love for life and the people in it.
#Rejection " And It takes no effort to say , No."- ALJ
I recently had a experience that has triggered me to the point of where I just want to shut down emotionally. This is something that I desire not to do, as I am currently doing my best to work on my personal triggers. But I can't help but be human.
In my mind I am comparing , what I have done for others vs not getting what I need, (What does not having compatible interests have to do with kindness or the willingness in my heart or in receiving the same willingness or effort in return?) #Balance
Maybe it's just easy to say No ? Because it takes no effort. But at least now, I am learning to accept reality over disappointment. Getting triggered, is atleast helping me figure out what I need emotionally, and how I can soothe myself. And since being triggered today, I am learning to understand more that quality time with friends or family is not about compatibility, it's more about finding comfort in company by sharing in activities that promote growth, trust, connection and expansion with our relationship(s).