Hey, you ! stop scrolling for a second, I've to tell you something , you know, dark times can happen, bad days can happen,it can happen to be misunderstood, to be judged badly , to be treated like an animal, to be bullied and to no longer trust anything ,But I want to tell this you are not alone , Allah swt is always with you. Life always put you in front of obstacles, but don't throw yourself away, you're amazing and you and Allah only know how much effort you're doing to walk your path of life, don't chose suicide, it never can bring peace, after watching that news of ayesha ,the suicide one, I can't sleep, tears rolling down, I wish if I can hug her and can tell her she's not alone, even your battle is too little compared to others if I can assure her, if I can tell her how sweet she's, if I can tell her about the love of Allah , how much Allah loves her, I wish I can save her, but now we all can do is emphasize her, because she died, if she didn't think of that we people will treat her differently, we don't value of a living person and this is a harsh truth, dead people get more flowers than the living one, we only talk good about death, not when they're alive, roses for dead and thorns for the others, if she would live this life we would mock her, harassed her, bully her, taunt her, calling her charalcterless, just because she's divorced, this is truth of this so called high class, highly educated society. We literally pushed her to do that, people will definitely lead her to commit suicide, I am not defending her, But just trying to show the mirror, what would we do, we'd never appreciate her or sympathize her if she's not dead, instead we'd make her life like a hell, so she don't have one reason to suffer this hell anymore, she'll think the real hell is better than this maybe, we never used good words to people we don't know what kind of battle some people fighting in everyday maybe one kind word is the reason for someone life, and one abusive word is a reason of death, we don't realize that, one word can destroy someone's life in a second, we're so selfish always thinking about Me Me and Me, why don't we think about We, just turned it around it'll become Me to We. but all I can say suicide is not the solution, suicide in not the end of the pain, it just passes it on. In today's world mental health is the most neglected one, people laugh over it, it's stigma of this society, if someone dealing with mental issues it means he/she is mad or some, we're so cruel and we don't understand others pain until we have them. Some people compared depression with lack of faith in Allah, so uneducated people, being sad is different from being depressed, It is a disease , and you can be depressed instead being a true believer , after having full faith in God. It's just unfortunate how people think, and the worst disease of the society is dowry, shame just shame on them who think woman as a ATM machine, some demands dowry, some intelligent people do it another way, think her as bonus salary ,But the intentions and the mentality are the same, but in a polished way. ☺.Suited booted highly educated beggars. May Allah grant patience to her family and friends and forgive her Ya Allah
Never ever think of suicide it's from shaytan, the worst enemy of ours " And do not kill yourselves (or one another) ,and Allah is to you ever merciful " Al Quran 4:19
So a motivation for me and you ,whoever reading this and struggling silently don't be afraid ,the sun will shine again in your life, flowers will bloom again , and the smile will return to your lips, I hope you can find the serenity you seek, and the happiness you deserve , I hope you can find a good job, I hope you can find the love of your life, I hope you can always wake up with smile on your face, I hope that oneday you'll be able to fulfill your dreams that you has as a child, and that Allah give you the strength to fight your battles and shaytanic thoughts , I hug you my friend, and I wish you much luck for everything.
God didn't promise day's without pain Laughter without sorrow or sun without rain But Allah did promise strength for the day , Laughter for the tears, and a light for the way, Just don't give up, I still believe there is so much more to life than these dark moment of weakness, let your tears run dry, don't suppress it, your heart will up with lights soon again, I know mine will , hope and mercy of Allah keep me going , My only guide, and The best one, Ain't He???
Sorry for this long and boring lecture come post, but I want to share my feelings that's all, if anyone will benefited from this I'll be blessed.May Allah grant us ease and patience in our hearts and protect us from Evil thoughts. Sorry for my grammatical errors, I'm not in that state. Please don't hesitate to tell my mistake..
After a Long time ,but this time I want to share this, I can't resist myself for doing, I hope everyone remembers me :) @iam_rose