I learnt it the hard way but when you excatly know what your self-worth actually is you dont settle for someone else's perception of you. You know what you deserve and all that you are worthy of. You disagree to fit into the standards that someone else has made for you. You are amazing and you know it and that is the best thing. People crave for your attention and time but that is the least important thing which makes you worthy because your worth is never measured by someone else's opinion of you , your worth is measured by your own opinion of yourself.