Breakups, heartaches, backstabbing, lying, cheating, abuse – at some point in time, everybody has more than likely when through these. And more than likely they use it as an excuse “not to open up.” They use it to look at the world as a bad place, and not trust anyone. Basically, they use it to define them now. I believe that is wrong. That makes me look like a hypocrite. But I have gone through everything I listed above, and up until a month ago I let it define me. I used the fact that my ex-boyfriend abused me as an excuse, not to get sympathy but to get…well, I don’t know. But, whatever it was, I know it was for all the wrong reasons. I learned that in order to be fully happy with myself and my life, I had to let go of all the wrong that was done to me. I had to let go of the things that I used to define me. Now, those negatives have become positives. I have become a much stronger person, and I’m at peace with myself. And, even the people who did wrong to me helped make me say, “I AM HONESTLY HAPPY” and I mean that with everything in me.
thekapsterNow, you no longer hate him because you are happy my dear sweet one. Don't allow yourself to ever repeat what happened to you. Love yourself It is truly difficult to get past something like this
He was the beast of the worst situations but carried a pure heart. I rendered that heart ,nurtured with love ,let the heart go wild but in a peaceful manner.I am happy I changed his virtual perceptions.I pulled him out of the darkness holding his hands tight.Hugged him to make him stable. And after I victoried if he left I am not gonna mourn because I saved someone's life. #love#separation#peace#mirakee#alonebuthappy#mourn;(