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  • work2rise 5h

    ALJ: Affirmation: Joyfully Kind

    ALJ:My joy promotes beauty and kindness in the world.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #321 Affirmation #321

  • work2rise 1d

    You can not make anyone be who they are not suppose to be.



    I am solid and reliable , I am not a fickle person. And I don't expect much different than what I give . And will never force or wait on anyone to do right or stand by me, if its not in them.

    Saweetie ft Lourdiz - Back Seat

    Erica Banks - Back

    Yella Bezzy feat Erica Banks- Star

  • work2rise 1d

    ALJ: Affirmation: Grateful With Joy

    ALJ: I am grateful for the joy that I have in my life right now.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #320 Day #320

    Attraction will make you behave in a way that makes you feel good about yourself and the company you keep.

    The Sacred Souls - Weak For Your Love

  • work2rise 1d

    ALJ: Affirmation: Joyfully generous

    ALJ: With joy I am able to live Generously and give joyfully.
    ©work2rise Affirmation #319 Day#319

  • work2rise 2d

    Desperateness is more of a burden on other people than it is on the person who has knowingly placed themselves in a desperate predicament or situation .


  • work2rise 3d

    Sometimes you don't always need to overcome to have joy , sometimes you got to use joy (faith)to overcome your experiences with joy and victory.


    When interests are mutual, whether romantically or physically, both must consider if they have chemistry together, or just share an attraction for each other.

  • work2rise 3d

    ALJ: Affirmation: With Joy I Can Overcome be Anything

    ALJ: Out of times of difficulty and loss, I can always count on joy to move me forward anyway.


    ©work2rise Affirmation #318 Day #318

    Sometimes you don't always need to overcome to have joy , sometimes you got to use joy (faith)to overcome your experiences with joy and victory.

    Alice Smith covers Jeff Buckley - Lover, you Should've Come Over ( YouTube)

    "Verse 2

    Broken down and hungry for your love
    With no way to feed it
    Where are you tonight, child
    You know how much I need it
    Too young to hold on
    And too old to just break free and run "

    The Internet - Special Affair

  • work2rise 3d

    ALJ: Affirmation : Joyfully Able

    ALJ: With Joy I , I joyfully have the desire and the capacity to do all things with Love.

    ©work2rise Affirmation # 317 Day 317

    Krizz Kaliko - Beautiful You Are

    Something For The People - My Love Is The Shhh!

  • work2rise 4d

    ALJ: Affirmation: My Joy Is Right For Me

    ALJ: Every decision that I make is joyfully right for me.

    ©work2rise Affirmation # 316 Day #316

    Case ft Foxy Brown - Touch Me Tease Me

    "Touch me, tease me, feel me and caress me
    Hold on tight and don't let go
    Baby I'm about to explode
    'Cause all my love you can control"


    I am a joyful person , and often come across people that are joyfully attracted to my personality as well as my physical attributes. It's great to be liked, but if I am not attracted, or interested I will remain polite, but will not attach. I might even withdraw, just to establish personal boundaries. And because I respect a person's right to what they like or don't, I will not pursue anyone whose uninterested . I know that I am very selective, but what often gets me excited (stimulated) is playfulness! It's nothing like sharing my time with someone whose creatively playful , attractive and witty with teasing me (stimulating) all day, everyday!

    #PlayfullnessIsAttractive #TeaseMe

  • work2rise 5d

    ALJ: I am Confidently Joyful

    ALJ: Today , I know that I can get all things done with joy and confidence.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #315 Day #315


    I never spend any time telling another what I need to do because if its something that I need in my life or want to get, I make it no one else's responsibility but my own, because I usually get it done (quietly) myself.

    Meg Myers- Desire

    Janelle Monae - Take a byte

    Ella Varner - Sound Proof Room

  • work2rise 1w

    ALJ: Affirmation : My Joy Contributes

    ALJ: My life contributes to the joy that surrounds me.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #314 Day 314

    Me'Shelle NdegeOcello - Outside your Door

    "Here I sit outside your door, talk to me"

    Me'Shelle NdegeOcello -Rush Over

    " My Want For You Is Rushing Over"

    Brenda Boykin - Be My Lover

    "Do Do Ah Ah

    Do Do Ah Ah

    Do Do Ah Ah"

    Etta James - I Just Want To Make Love To You

    .."There is nothing for you to do
    But keep me making love to you

    Love to you, ooohooo
    Love to you

    And I can tell by the way you walk that walk
    And I can hear by the way you talk that talk
    And I can know by the way you treat your girl
    That I could give you all the loving in the whole wide world

    All I want you to do is to bake your bread
    Just to make sure that you're well fed
    I don't want you sad and blue
    And I just wanna make love to you

    Love to you, ooohooo
    Love to you, oooh.."

  • work2rise 1w

    ALJ: Affirmation: Happiness Magnifies My Joy

    ALJ: My happiness is a magnet for Joy.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #313 Day 313

    George Michael - I Want Your Sex

    The Dream - Turnt Out

    Khia - My Neck , My Back

  • work2rise 1w

    Some people say NO, because they don't want to give up any form of control or personal comfort. But when it involves another person's interests, wants, needs, one will have to learn to compromise (their personal comfort or control) for the growth, benefit, and betterment of the relationship or otherwise risk sacrificing their own happiness (comfort) and placement within the relationship.



    Compromise is better than sacrifice

    Prince - If I Was Your Girlfriend

    The Internet- Don't Cha

    The Internet - Girl

    The Dream - Mr. Yeah

  • work2rise 1w

    ALJ: Affirmation: Joyful Values

    ALJ: My joy is always true to myself and my values.
    ©work2rise Affirmation # 312 Day 312

  • work2rise 1w

    You Are Welcome To Say No

    If I want something from anyone then know that I am Stubborn enough to NOT make anyone do what they don't want to do with me or for me.
    Because fighting resistance only brings more stress on me than it does on them, so I take NO ,✋ as a sign of peace☮️, and growth within me so that my life leads me peacefully in a space (place) where there is room for my needs and wants to be received openly and joyfully fulfilled without force or burden from me. For if it takes NO, then I choose, EASE.

    ©work2rise #ALJPersonal

    Chase B, Bloodbath, KenTheMan- For Me

    Day Sulan ft YG - Bailar

  • work2rise 1w

    ALJ: Affirmation:All Joyfully Flows Well Unto Me

    ALJ: Whatever I want joyfully flows to me easily and frequently.

    ©work2rise Affirmation # 310 Affirmation 310

    Saint Motel - Make Me Feel Like

    Prince - Fall In Love Tonight

    Prince - Hard Rock Lover

  • work2rise 1w

    ALJ: Affirmation: Joyful Experiences

    ALJ: My joy is in complete alignment with every experience that is needed to succeed and change my life for the BEST right now.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #309 Day #309

    Erica Banks - Buss It

  • work2rise 2w

    ALJ: Affirmation: Joyful Goals

    ALJ: My Joyful Actions Moves Me To The Completion Of My Goals.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #308 Day308

    Erica Banks - Trip Out

  • work2rise 2w

    ALJ: Affirmation: Full of Joy

    ALJ: With Joy I Am Free And Full of Life.

    ©work2rise Affirmation #307 Day 307

  • work2rise 2w

    Within our personal relationship(s) with others, it is important that we try to find ways to equally compromise, when it comes to doing or having other interests, hobbies, plans or events that may defer .

    Otherwise, there will hardly be anytime shared or balance within the relationship, for one of both inability to commit to compromising a little by being present and available enough to support , see or share in an activity or interest that is deemed to help each grow in understanding . Yet it is better to compromise than it is to sacrifice.

    ©work2rise #QualityTime


    " Quality time is my love language."

    Life is getting much busier, and more people are requesting my presence and appearence at different social events. I also have certain personal hobbies , rest periods , leisure activities of interests, and personal rituals that I like to do on a daily or weekly basis. Yet, I am trying to find the balance within my personal or social engagements with other people.

    If I am asked to do something as an activity or invite, I will most likely say yes , unless there is a conflict. If at first I seem disinterested, I may compromise (and do it for the joy of quality time) and reconsider based upon the other person's passion or personal interest, I will go. If there isn't a conflict, of course.

    Yet, then there is I. If I try to introduce a hobby, interest, event and the other person seems, disinterested, or stubborn, I won't force it over and over. I will just go out and enjoy taking pleasure in the activity or event. And if I seem unavailable, it's most likely that I am out doing what you decline.
    With me I like routine and my hobbies are routine, and I LOVE quality time.

    I will compromise but I will not sacrifice my interests, or spending time on my interests, because no one or someone is disinterested (when they haven't even tried) nor spent any quality time with me, in learning to about the activity ,event , or intrests that makes me the person that I am.

    Tech N9ne - Kick It With Myself