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Pain shapes a woman into a warrior

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  • buildsup 5w

    I might get rude at times and sometimes I just want to isolate myself for a while , not because I hate you .
    But to be with myself and handle things alone !!
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  • buildsup 11w

    I feel so scared when my own mind harms my existence , god
    I wish someone could have helped me escape from my own negative intrusive thoughts .

  • buildsup 16w

    Hello everyone,

    This time the content of my writing is based on issues and on- going situation .....
    It's more on" WOMEN " facing domestic voilence....
    And it's also something I wanted to share my thoughts with you and experiences that we women faces a lot of times but never stand against it ....


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    Content on women : domestic violence .


    I have experienced in my life how women has dealt throughout their lives.
    That how they have been treated in this society by people ,men or anyone .
    But they never raised their voice to speak up just because of that fear , validation , loved and support
    And how they have endured all the pains and struggles in their life and had also lose their own dignity and self respect just because of the so called named "society".

    WOMEN FACING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: I have seen alot of women facing this on one way or the other . I have seen my own relatives where women has to endure everything despite she leaving her own house and coming up to take care of her new family with a man !!
    A mother working day and night just to run their family well but every night she gets beaten by her drunkard husband , she cooks tasty meals for him but never gets appreciated for her work , she leaves her own dream job just to maintain her family and the members included in the family , since morning till night 11:00 , she works and takes care of every little thing . But she endures every torture from her man , he slaps her , beats her , breaks her spine and emotional torture her but still a woman endures eveything , a mother sacrifice her own self respect and dignity just for the sake of her children so that the children can also get their father's love though he disrespects her still she sacrifice and is okay with whatsoever he does to her .
    I salute those mother's , daughters and sisters who have sacrificed so much in their lives and especially a MOTHER , who has sacrificed her self respect just for her son's and daughters.
    I'M TRULY PROUD OF THAT !!!!
    But this is not the right thing or the right way ....

    I think a lot of people get caught up with this .
    Because most people say "I LOVE YOU " without letting the other female know that "I JUST WANT TO USE YOU"
    "I JUST WANT TO MANIPULATE YOU "
    "I JUST WANT TO TORTURE YOU IN THE LONG RUN "
    AND as men know generally that women get easily attached , it's something the youth
    The youth men are abusing this attachment ....





    And the most worst part is the society.
    Because if a woman get divorced then the society judges her character immendiately .
    They don't ask the reasons why , what Happened ??! Nothing ....

    Because society never questions a man's character but it always questions a woman's character ....
    And why women always ????

    Just because a women can compromise , just because a women can't raise her voice....
    Just because no one will support her
    Just because she's weak on the inside ....
    Just because she is only the one to handle and understand everything.


    Society , society , society , society ....
    F**k society ....
    Do you even know how many women are going through this shit and dumb rules of the society ??
    They have locked themselves up in this cage , that they have cut their own wings to fly ....
    And have already surrendered so much just because of that one man that they're married to ..
    But still women will endure and sacrifice just for some pettyful intimate pleasure and so called dumb love from men and will be hoping that one day , there prince charming will change but guess what they never change ??
    Like really??


    You know what I think in my opinion is that WOMEN , it's high time to wake up and open your eyes , stop enduring all this throughout your life
    By enduring , you're just encouraging such men to torture you even more !!!!!!
    And what you think men will change ,
    NO WAYS
    They never change .
    They can never .
    They will only change if they're willing to on their own and if not
    Leave such men right there !!!!
    Stop thinking about the society
    And start thinking for your own well being ....

    Just think about your own children , do you want the same to happen with your children ?
    And what example are you setting in front of your children ??
    It's not the right way !!
    It's true they will be encouraged by your struggles and sacrifice but compromising isn't always the solution ......
    If you don't raise your voice now , no one and nobody is going to do that for you !!
    You have to fight for yourself.
    You have to do it for yourself and for the better you!!

    Trust your instincts that you can do this.
    So...
    RAISE YOUR VOICE....
    DO IT NOW
    OR REGRET IN THE LONG RUN ....

    YOUR ONE VOICE CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE .....AND IN THE UPCOMING FUTURE
    YOU WILL BECOME YOUR CHILDREN'S BEST INSPIRATION AND GUIDE !!
    JUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF....

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    HARDSHIP'S OF WOMEN
    ©buildsup

  • buildsup 16w

    Fight against the evil of eve teasing

  • buildsup 18w

    When an outside betrays us , we lose hope .
    But when our loved ones betrays us , we shatter
    And sometimes we hurt ourselves while picking up those pieces to fit into our broken heart
    People change from their experiences,
    I wasn't always like this
    It's just that the world didn't give me a chance ,
    So , I handled all my responsibilities alone.

  • buildsup 18w

    Those who seek justice should never waver at any point in their pursuit ,
    Those who waver can never accomplish anything
    ©buildsup

  • buildsup 18w

    People's skills

    Reading and observing a person's mind is the key to come across them.
    Though intelligent, still everyone has their weaknesses
    Once you find it out , they no longer have the power to overcome their weakness.
    And that's where you got to plot twist and walk away
    But play safe if you wanna get to know about someone's true side .
    It's easy to notice the good side but never the vulnerable side/true self and if you ever wanted to see their vulnerable or true self , you got to show your vulnerability too ,maybe in real or fake it
    Fake it in such a way that it seems real to them and once you fake it , you will make it as per your plan, as you decide to know about that particular person or a situation.
    The moment you get to remove their mask , you will know who they truly are as a person .

    But you got to be ten steps ahead of how you observe and test someone
    It needs to be played safe
    Or else trouble might play against us .


    PLAY SAFE AND BE CAREFUL....
    CAUSE PEOPLE ARE NOT WHAT THEY SEEM ....

  • buildsup 28w

    #FOR PEOPLE WHO MUST BE DEALING WITH NEGATIVITY OR TOXIC PEOPLE IN THEIR LIVES !!
    SO THIS WRITING IS FOR YOU GUYS !! ����

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    So Say ," THANK YOU"
    To all the toxic people in your life
    Why say thank you ?
    Well it's because , if they didn't appreciate you , they taught you how you must not be treated and they taught you how not to treat others.

    If they let you go ,
    They showed you how to move on
    They showed you that you're more than a relationship.
    You at your deepest level are NOT YOU plus someone else
    So just be you cause you are you

    If they made you feel unworthy
    If they took the life out of you for a moment
    They showed you that NO ONE can ever take all the life from you long term
    They actually gave you the strength and character
    They expanded your heart.

    So WHATEVER THEY DID TO YOU
    Don't let it stop you from being you
    From loving and living fully
    Don't let one person or two or three
    Stop you from becoming your greatest self .
    Don't let them win by holding on
    Let their toxic Energy stay with them and release it from your life

    So thank them for the lessons
    Thank them for the blessings
    Thank them for helping you move on and let go of them for good.

    And honestly
    Even I'm grateful for all those people ,
    They have shown me exactly who I do not want to be
    I'm grateful for every single person who has come into my life .
    Every person who has shaped my life for better .
    Cause they have shaped me for who I am proud of today..

    As I'm wise enough to decide who will stay and who I need to distance myself
    Who adds value and who takes it away

    There's a saying , " Stay away from negative people
    It means that you should limit your time that continually drains your energy and add no value to your life.
    Everyone comes into your life for a lesson , a reason or a blessing
    Don't chase people
    Be yourself
    Keep your life free from the drama and the negativity that is not who you're
    Do your own thing and work hard
    Cause ," The right people , the ones who really belong in your life ,will come to you and stay ....
    ❣️
    ©buildsup

  • buildsup 30w

    Who thought an inspiring writer be such a person underneath!

  • buildsup 32w

    BREAKTHROUGH

    Idk, why people don't feel pain they put us through, why they can't understand how worst the life of ours gonna be after it's all over

    It's so damn easy for the people to use and break us
    Making us dream all the heavenly thing , and fulfilling it with someone else


    And what about the person who's going through all this shit , you broke them , making them feel useless and unworthy
    It's like a punishment for life for that person , because that person won't be able to accept and move forward in their lives !!