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There's a possibility..A strong possibility that someone isJUST NOT INTERESTED.Consider that.However much desirable, scintillating..your ideas, your ideology, your Pov AND your company might be..IN YOUR EYES AND MIND..Someone STILL might not be interested.Consider that..AND when clearly indicated..Learn to lay off..!!!!Other people's interest, opinions..Attention or lack of it..Is NEVER a reflection on who you are..Just like, your idea of someoneIs NOT a reflection on who they are.Consider that. Remember that.—Always Consider n Remember.
I always Marvel at the Innocence/Craftof the People, who think that they can EVERUndo any harm/ damage/ disrespect done..Disrespect once done cannot be undoneWords once spoken, cannot be taken backDeeds once done, cannot be mitigated..Time once gone, is gone..THAT was the ONLY Time.. WHEN it was THE Time..So, let me SAVE you a hell lot of Time....and tell you.. don't even try..DON'T EVEN..—!!
The fact that changed everything for mewas to understand that:I don't have to carry..ANYTHING I don't want to....and it is ABSOLUTELY AlrightIf that disappointed people.My Life is mine and before ANYONE elseI have to live for myself. I don't have to have conversationsThat I don't want to have..I don't have to do meetingsI don't want to do..I don't have to do, say, share, pay for, buyANYTHING I don't want to..I don't have to build, plant, lift, carry ANYTHINGI don't want to..I don't have to attend any functions, concertslive events, I don't want to..I don't have to molly-coddle, pacify, nurture someoneWhen I don't feel so inclined..In fact I don't even have to acknowledgesomething or someone if I don't want to.AND if someone keeps getting into my faceIt's perfectly alright to snub with Silence or in words.It's perfectly alright to say a Firm 'No' It's perfectly alright to answer in resounding Silence.. AND I extend the same freedom, spaceand sovereignty to others.—Don't want to.. won't do.
Living..Free of the expectationsOf others..Is the best way to Live It's the ONLY way to Live.—Live.
AND if people don't give you.. Ignore you.. treat you as Invisible..That's just how it is..That's JUST HOW IT IS..You cannot hold anyone to RansomWith your Needs. Your dreams..Your Life purpose is yours to live..However Noble be your life's purpose..You cannot hold others accountable for it.That's it.That's just it.
The management takesNO Responsibility for Your Expectations, Your Entitlement..AND your Needs/ Wants.You chose this path.. this LifeIt's Your Responsibility.. ONLY YOUR RESPONSIBILITY..to walk it, live it.Do it if you can..AND IF YOU CAN'TRest.. Quit.. Give up.. go home.. Cry, Scream.. pull your hair out..Do whatever the hell you want..!!But you CANNOT project your thoughtsYour Needs and your wants on others..You CANNOT expect others to live for youOr provide for your dreams..You cannot complain that no one supports you..Support is given.. not demanded, not owed, not claimed. You can Ask.... but whether you will receive or not Is neither yours to decide.. nor contest.—Reality Check.
People love to hate Those that they CAN'T control.My favourite part isTo ENJOY that hatred.—
..and there arebillions of PeopleIn the World..But for me..There's only you.—Only you.❤️❤️
To, the Wise women thatYou all are, my sisters.. !!
The Wise Woman Accepts what she's been throughAcknowledges Her Past and her Response to it allComforts herself for all the ViolenceThe world did to her..Forgives herself for all the ViolenceShe did to herself..Tells herself.."I know Dear.. I know it all.. I was there.. with you.. within you..I went through it all, alongside you.." BUT she doesn't dwell on it..She doesn't brood on it..She doesn't live in her Past..She doesn't get bitter over the Past..Everyday, She chooses her PresentEveryday, She chooses herself..I wrote this for you Sister..Because that Wise Woman is you.—The Wise Woman♀️♂️
It is NEVER my Responsibility..To be True to your idea/ image of me.See the boundaries..AND Mind the Boundaries.AND REMEMBER to act..LESS Self-Important.
I am NOTHING like....how you remember me.I am NOTHING like..How you thought of me, perceived me.I am NOTHING like..The image of me in YOUR mind.Now.. I DON'T MIND you holding fast toWhat or who you think I am..Quite frankly.. it's NONE of my businessWhat you think..BUT I will sure as hell..Raise Hell and all it's horrors..If you so much as TRY TO PROJECT..your idea of me.. on me...and reproach or shame me for outgrowing you.So.. Remember to keep a healthy distanceAND ABSOLUTELY Mind the boundariesI set for you.—Boundaries.
NOT giving the peoplewho disappoint me.... another chance todisappoint me is:My favourite part of beingAn aware, enlightened..Totally in control person.That's what Adulting is all about..That's what self-care and Self-preservation isTo NOT let Shit slide..People ALWAYS know.. EXACTLY what they are doing..AND if they don't..Well.. you shouldn't be mixing with that crowd.. anyway.—disappoint me once.. shame on you..Disappoint me twice.. I might as well die.